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I’m looking for
- Ages 20–30
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, short-term dating
- Last online
- Aug 21
- 6′ 0″ (1.83m)
- Body Type
- Other, and laughing about it
- Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
- Graduated from university
- Rather not say
- Open relationship
- Mostly non-monogamous
- Likes cats
- English (Fluently), C++ (Okay), LISP (Okay), Other (Fluently)
Anything with time travel or psychological thrillers.
Anything with epic story arcs.
Anything but rap.
You have a job opening in the Bay Area.
You should definitely message me if...
You are open to and appreciate close friendships and loving relationships. You are emotionally and mentally attractive, and don't just think of it as "in spite of physical imperfection"—that is, you are comfortable with yourself. You share in any of my fandoms but can talk as an equal with someone who may not be as devoted as you. You are snuggle-able and want to share snuggles over a common interest. You are, were, or will be doing something awesome, and want someone to share it with. You can appreciate that I am in love more than once already and this will not change. You are intelligent and can laugh.
You may want to think twice about messaging me if...
You are looking for a monogamous relationship.
While I am quite happy to date monogamously if such is the requirement of my partner, I intend for my lifetime partnership to be with a person who can support my polyamory. If you don't think that's something you can do, I'm willing to help, but if that's something you don't want to do, I probably will not be settling down with you.
You are straight or gay and have expectations of gender roles.
The following deserves mention: I am gender-fluid and bisexual and moreover I feel like I would have a hard time connecting with anyone who doesn't share my appreciation for both sexes.
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