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25 Virginia Beach, VA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18-23
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Oct 16
6' 0" (1.83m)
Body Type
Average build
Working on University
Doesn’t have kids
Has cats
English (Fluently), Japanese (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
My name is Ben. Nerd as hell. I'm really terrible at being charming and I'm super great at being awkward. I work at ADT Home Security selling security systems

I want to be friends with your dogs, cats, or other assorted pets. I like reading, netflix, coffee, whiskey, feeling nostalgic, spicy food, nice suits, feminism, and learning random facts.

Instagram: the_legend_of_ben
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I sell security systems to and occasionally make coffee for suburban moms. I like to go climbing, and hiking whenever I can, because it is a lot more fun that running.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Apparently I'm pretty funny??

The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My charming personality and my award-winning good looks???

Yeah probably not
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Literally too much to list, but you can always ask me!

But if you insist on a list...
Favorite video game is The Legend of Zelda
Favorite movie is a tie between The Lion King and Jurassic Park
Favorite book series is A Song of Ice and Fire
Favorite tv show is Scrubs
Favorite band is Red Hot Chili Peppers
Favorite play is Fiddler on the Roof
Favorite classical composer is Tchiacovsky

I will try just about any type of food. I love Spicy food. I will go to town on a bacon cheese burger with jalapenos.

The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Either one of my hands
My cat
Social interaction on some degree
Coffee. I'm sure if I really wanted to I could give it up, but I would very angry for a few days. Or a month. Or forever.
The laws of physics
Terrible, awful puns
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
if senpai will notice me or not...


I really have a thing for strong, badass women


I didn't know where else to put this, but... I know for a fact that you can't have a perfect relationship with somebody if you don't have that foundation of friendship to build it upon. Friendship will get you through the rough times, because romance by itself is fragile.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working or playing. Sometimes it feels like both.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Taylor Swift and Lady Gaga are my musical guilty pleasures

I have a fear of robots.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over. want an actual, real conversation and NOT some fuckboy or a dudebro in a fedora demanding sexual favors, sending you unsolicited wiener pictures and then calling you derogatory names when you don't comply, because quite frankly, that type of behavior is just not ok.

Or if you would like hang out with me