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24 Virginia Beach, VA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18–23
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Oct 29, 2014
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body type
A little extra
Mostly anything
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Working on university
Less than $20,000
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Japanese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
My name is Ben. I'm really terrible at being charming and I'm super great at being awkward. I am a Shift Supervisor at Starbucks. I want to go into law enforcement. I like animals, reading, netflix, coffee, whiskey, feeling nostalgic, spicy food, nice suits, feminism, and learning random facts.

Instagram: the_legend_of_ben
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I was going to college at TCC for Criminal Justice, but due to a broken tooth(which is now basically fixed, btw I don't have a gaping hole in my smile), I am now out of college money. So I'm applying for the Sherrif's department, so I can start getting on with my life and then go back and finish my degree.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making drinks at Starbucks, The Legend of Zelda, making awkward situations less awkward by being really awkward, and coming up with clever names for things.

Being loud. Great at that. My goal at work is for people to hear my on the other side of the food court when I call out drinks.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
"Is that a Triforce on yor name tag?"

Also, I more than occasionally hear, "you look like Brendan Fraiser" and it's more than annoying
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I'm gonna list video games, movies, tv, books, and comics as they come to me..
Legend of Zelda, Doctor Who, Fire Emblem, Metroid, Harry Potter, Lord of the Rings, Deadpool, Iron Man, Bat Man, Gurren Lagann, Dragon Ball, Cowboy Bebop, Trigun, Evangelion, Zoids, Samurai Jack, Animaniacs, Invader Zim, Avatar: Last Airbender and Legend of Korra, Star Wars, Star Trek, Fire Fly, Supernatural, Simon Pegg Movies, Quentin Tarantino movies.

Red Hot Chili Peppers is my favorite band, but if I listed all the music I listen to, I'd be here all night.

I will try just about any type of food. I love Spicy food. I will go to town on a bacon cheese burger with jalapenos.

uuuuummm I guess that's pretty much it!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Either one of my hands
My cat
Social interaction on some degree
Coffee. I'm sure if I really wanted to I could give it up, but I would very angry for a few days. Or a month. Or forever.
The laws of physics
Terrible, awful puns
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
if Senpai will notice me...

I really have a thing for strong, badass women who look like they can kill me


I didn't know where else to put this, but... I know for a fact that you can't have a perfect relationship with somebody if you don't have that foundation of friendship to build it upon. Friendship will get you through the rough times, because romance by itself is fragile.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?

I work a lot.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
The dirty dishes in my sink hang around longer than I would like.

I have a fear of robots.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over. want an actual, real conversation and NOT some dudebro in a fedora demanding sexual favors, sending you unsolicited wiener pictures and then calling you derogatory names when you don't comply, because quite frankly, that type of behavior is just not ok.

Or if you want senpai to notice you