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51 M Atlanta, GA

My Details

Last Online
Feb 27, 2012
6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body Type
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t want kids
Has dogs
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), French (Poorly), Chinese (Poorly), Japanese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.

I don't fit in.

I am a card-carrying resident of the island of misfit boys.

I'm a 16-year-old trapped in a 46-year-old's body. That doesn't mean I haven't grown up. I've certainly done that. I've got a husband, 2 dogs, a house, a car, a good career, a decent education, good friends and family, and overall an acceptable life.

For a while (6 years) I was in a polyamorous relationship. I was hard-core in love with both of them but they just couldn't get along. In the end, one of them left. I keep my commitments so I'm still with the other, but there's the proverbial hole in my heart and that's got me wondering what's next.

Enter my dream boy. In my fantasy world, there's a perfect boy for me out there just waiting to be discovered. He's willing to put up with my fucked up marriage situation and wants to hang out with me for fun, food, sex, whatever. He's into gaming and sci-fi, action figures, Lego, go-karts, and all that other stuff I craved as a kid just as I do now.

He's not in it for the money. He just genuinely wants to be around me and shares my passion for life and all it has to offer.

"But what about your husband?" I hear you cry.

Maybe you missed the part about this being a fantasy. That doesn't mean I wouldn't move heaven and earth to once again expand my relationship for the right guy. I got burned, true, but I'm healing (albeit a bit slowly).

In the meantime, I'm fleshing out my fantasy by imagining the perfect boy. It feels good. So sue me.

I love a pale skinny geeky boy with a huge brain, a level 80 Warlock, and a well-equipped Gallente battleship. The perfect boy can quote Alien, Blade Runner, Trek, Han Solo, Cowboy Bebop, Douglas Adams, South Park, Pink Floyd, Python, Buckaroo Banzai, and shouts "KANEDA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!" from time to time. Long-haired hippie stoner boys are always a nice find, but it's the skinny geek with the LCD tan that usually turns my head.

The perfect boy is into new experiences. New food. New places. New music. The perfect boy can appreciate everything from Mahler to Pink Floyd to The Goodies and the The Coral. The perfect boy wants to kick my ass in Virtua Fighter. (Good luck with that one!) The perfect boy pulls me next to him when I come to bed. The perfect boy looks like Goofus but acts like Gallant. The perfect boy gets that Highlights reference even though he's way too young to remember it. The perfect boy inspires me to keep my weight down but never makes it about him. The perfect boy never makes me choose between him and my husband. The perfect boy wants to be a complement to my husband, not competition. The perfect boy has unkempt hair that often grows too long before he cuts it. The perfect boy enjoys it when I shower him with attention. The perfect boy knows how to pick his battles and confronts me when I get out of line. The perfect boy is never afraid to try new things. The perfect boy has strong convictions but a stronger desire for truth. The perfect boy can be mischievous but never malicious. The perfect boy knows the difference between being my equal partner and being my equal. The perfect boy enjoys learning from me. The perfect boy knows he can teach me as much as I teach him. The perfect boy prefers hanging out at a LAN party, watching a double feature at home, or going to see a local rock band that most people have never heard of. The perfect boy doesn't need others to love him, but he wants it. The perfect boy enjoys it when people crave his natural beauty but understands that his beauty is fleeting. The perfect boy revels in the power of his youth and enjoys sharing it with older guys.

The perfect boy may be a myth, but a man must have ideals.

Self-absorbed twinks and muscle boys NEED NOT APPLY.

I am Geeky, Rational, and Funny
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Making enough money to travel, watch movies, and play games.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Thinking, logic, games, process, puzzles, organization, giving head, caressing, kissing, RPGs, platformers, critiquing music, playing DJ, dissecting the news, seeing the invisible connections (aka reading the room).
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm very vocal about my own ideas but very open to others.
The results of The 32-Type Dating Test are kinda scary accurate.

MY SCORE: The Gentleman
Deliberate Gentle Love Master (DGLMm)
Steady & mature.
The results read:
"For anyone looking for an even-keeled, considerate lover, you're their man. You're sophisticated. You know what you want both in a relationship and outside of it. You have a substantial romantic side, and you're experienced enough sexually to handle yourself in that arena, too. Your future relationships will be long-lasting; you're classic 'marrying material,' a prize in the eyes of many.

It's possible that behind it all, you're a bit of a male slut. Your best friends know that in relationships you're fundamentally sex-driven. You're a safe, reliable guy, who does get laid. In a lot of ways, you're like a well-worn, comfortable pair of socks. Did you ever jack off into one of those? All the time."

My exact opposite:
The Last Man on Earth
Random Brutal Sex Dreamer

My ideal mate is NOT a nut-job. He is giving and loving, like me, but also experienced or willing to learn.
I should avoid the The False Messiah at all fucking costs.

CONSIDER: The Gentleman, someone just like you.

Link: The 32-Type Dating Test
My profile name: Legolad
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
The Goodies; 10,000 Maniacs; Alanis Morissette; Andres Segovia; Andy Summers; Angelo Badalamenti; Annie Lennox; Antonio Vivaldi; Arrested Development; Art Garfunkel; Aterciopelados; The B-52's; Babatunde Olatunji; The Banana Splits; Bauhaus; Beastie Boys; The Beatles; Beck; Beny More; Big Audio Dynamite II; Billy Bragg; Billy Idol; Black; Black Uhuru; The Blue Nile; Bob Marley & the Wailers; The Byrds; Cabaret Voltaire; Cake; Carl Orff; Carl Stalling; Cat Stevens; The Chameleons; Cheap Trick; Chet Atkins; Chicago; Chris Isaak; Christopher Parkening; Clap Your Hands Say Yeah; The Clash; Cocteau Twins; The Coral; Crosby Stills Nash; The Cure; Daniel Ash; Danny Elfman; Dave Stewart; David Bowie; David Byrne; David J; David Sylvian; De La Soul; Dead Can Dance; The Dead Milkmen; Depeche Mode; Devo; Dick Dale; Dmitri Shostakovich; Domenico Scarlatti; The Doors; Duncan Dhu; Dzintars; The Eagles; Echo & The Bunnymen; Eliades Ochoa; Enigma; Erasure; Eric Clapton; Ernesto Lecuona; Etta James; Eurythmics; Everlast; The Everly Brothers; Felix Mendelssohn; Fine Young Cannibals; Fleetwood Mac; Frank Zappa; Frankie Goes To Hollywood; Franz Joseph Haydn; Franz Liszt; Franz Schubert; Frederic Chopin; Gene Loves Jezebel; Gheorghe Zamfir; Giovanni Battista Pergolesi; Gipsy Kings; Grateful Dead; Gregorian Chants; Guns N' Roses; Gustav Mahler; Happy Mondays; Hariprasad & Zakir Hussain; Harry Connick; Hector Berlioz; Howlin' Wolf; The Human League; Ian McCulloch; Ibrahim Ferrer; Igor Stravinsky; Indigo Girls; INXS; James Brown; James Galway; Jane's Addiction; Japan; Jean-Michel Jarre; Jefferson Airplane; Jellyfish; Jethro Tull; Jim Band Carroll; Jimi Hendrix; Jimmy Somerville; The Jody Grind; Joe Jackson; Joe Satriani; Johann Sebastian Bach; John Coltrane; John Lee Hooker; John Lennon; Johnny Clegg; Jon And Vangelis; Jorge Bolet; Joy Division; Julee Cruise; Julian Cope; k.d. lang; Kansas; Kate Bush; Keith Jarrett; Kelly Hogan; King Missile; The KLF; Kurt Weill; Lake & Palmer Emerson; Laurie Anderson; Led Zeppelin; The Legendary Pink Dots; Leon Redbone; Leonard Cohen; Lloyd Cole; Lou Reed; Love And Rockets; Ludwig von Beethoven; Luka Bloom; Madness; Mahalia Jackson; Malcolm McLaren; Mama Mosambiki; The Mamas & The Papas; Marty Wilson-Piper; Material; Maurice Ravel; Mazzy Star; MC 900FT Jesus; Me First and the Gimme Gimmes; Metallica; Miles Davis; Ministry; Miranda Sex Garden; Moby; Modest Moussorgsky; The Monkees; Morrissey; The Motels; Muddy Waters; My Life with the Thrill Kill Kult; New Order; Nico; Nine Inch Nails; Nirvana; No Doubt; Nusrat Fateh Ali Khan; Oingo Boingo; Omara Portuondo; The Orb; Orchestral Manoeuvres In The Dark; Otis Redding; P.M. Dawn; Pandit Jasraj; Pansy Division; Pato Banton; Patsy Cline; Paul McCartney; Paul Simon; Paul Winter; Pet Shop Boys; Peter Gabriel; Peter Schilling; The Pharcyde; Philip Glass; Pink Floyd; The Pogues; The Police; Prefab Sprout; Preservation Hall Jazz Band; The Presidents of the United States of America; The Pretenders; Primitive Radio Gods; Primus; Prince; The Psychedelic Furs; Psychic TV; Public Image Ltd.; Pure; Pyotr Ilyich Tchaikovsky; Queen; R.E.M.; Rain Tree Crow; Rare Earth; Rasputina; Ray Lynch; Red Hot Chili Peppers; Renegade Soundwave; Revolting Cocks; Richard Strauss; Richard Wagner; Rickie Lee Jones; River Ocean & India; Riyuichi Sakamoto; Robert Johnson; Robyn & The Egyptians Hitchcock; The Roches; Roger Waters; Roxy Music; Rush; Sade; Santana; Screamin' Jay Hawkins; Sergei Prokofiev; Sergei Rachmaninov; Shriekback; Simon & Garfunkel; Sinead O'Connor; Siouxsie and the Banshees; Sisters of Mercy; The Smiths; Soft Cell - Marc Almond; The Special Aka; The Specials; Spin Doctors; Squeeze; Squirrel Nut Zippers; Stephan Micus; Steve Band Miller; Stevie Wonder; Sting; Styx; The Sugarcubes; Suicidal Tendencies; Syd Barrett; Tabu Ley; Talking Heads; Tanita Tikaram; T-Bone Burnett; Tears For Fears; Television Personalities; That Petrol Emotion; The The; They Might Be Giants; Thomas Dolby; Throbbing Gristle; Tim Curry; Tin Machine; Tina Turner; Tom Lehrer; Tom Waits; Tones On Tail; Trio; U2; UB40; Urban Dance Squad; Utah Saints; Vangelis; The Velvet Underground & Nico; Violent Femmes; War; Was (Not Was); The Waterboys; Wolfgang Amadeus Mozart; Wolfgang Press; World Party; X; XTC; Yaz; Yello.

Lord of the Rings (trilogy), Akira, Mindwalk, Star Wars (all of it), Duck Soup, Seven Samurai, Hidden Fortress, Kentucky Fried Movie, The Yes Men, Endless Summer, 2001: A Space Odyssey, Alien, Auntie Mame, Beautiful Thing, Bell Book and Candle, Blazing Saddles, Born Yesterday, Brazil, A Chinese Ghost Story, Chitty Chitty Bang Bang, City of Lost Children, The Thin Man, Death In Venice, Desk Set, Delicatessan, Diva, Dr. Strangelove, Eat Drink Man Woman, Fantastic Planet, Forbidden Planet, La Femme Nikita, The Fifth Element, For a Lost Soldier, The Legend of Fong Sai Yuk, Wing Chun, Harold and Maude, Harry Potter (all of them), Inherit The Wind, Jesus Christ Superstar, Jaws, Kiki's Delivery Service, Kung Fu Hustle, A La Mode, The Lion In Winter, A Man For All Seasons, The Maltese Falcon, James Bond (all of them), Mr. Smith Goes To Washington, Night of the Lepus, North By Northwest, Office Space, The Omen, Parting Glances, The Princess Bride, Princess Mononoke, Romeo And Juliet (Zeffirelli), Serenity, Spirited Away, Stargate, Starman, Time Bandits, Valley of the Gwangi, When Worlds Collide, X-Men (all of them), Young Frankenstein

Battlestar Galactica (new not old), Firefly, Heroes, Robot Chicken, The Boondocks, Clone Wars, Stargate SG-1, Studio 60, Doctor Who (new not old), Soap, Tomorrow People, Tripods, Cowboy Bebop, Monty Python's Flying Circus, Flipper, Absolutely Fabulous, Babylon 5, The Muppet Show, The Green Hornet, Last Exile, Looney Tunes, Animaniacs, Speed Racer, Ultraman, Thunderbirds, Trigun.

Time Enough For Love (Heinlein), Godbody (Sturgeon), Battlefield Earth (I know, I know...but it's good), Omnivore's Delight, Turning Point (Capra), Chronicles of Thomas Covenant (Donaldson), Illusions (Bach), The God In Flight (Argiri), Hitchhiker's Guide To The Galaxy (Adams), The Carniverous Lamb (Gomez-Arcos).
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
ambient noise
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The story I could tell and the invention I just thought of and the game I would design.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At home, gaming, writing, reading, working, etc. The perfect boy would be with me.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
lol....didn't I already answer that above?
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 18–30
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, casual sex
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
We have a lot in common; you just want to hang out with a geek like me; you just want to use my home theater; you need directions; you have questions that no one else will answer.