I pick you up in my Alpha Romeo. There are lit candles in the car.
You ask "Isn't that dangerous?"
I simply reply, "Yes, my dear."
We go to your favourite restaurant and have a fantastic time. When we come outside, my car is on fire.
You say "Brendan, your car's on fire, aren't you upset?"
I pull a packet of marshmallows out of my pocket and say, "No, I knew this would happen."
I kiss you in front of my burning car.
I don't have an Alpha.