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62 Southend-on-Sea, UK Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 40–55
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Dec 7
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Banking / Finance
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids
English (Fluently), French (Okay), Russian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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What I will tell you will probably appear contradictory. I love going with my sons and mates to live football but have also enjoyed La Boheme, a Modigliani exhibition, reading Haruki Murakami, visiting Pompeii. I work in the City but my views are left wing. I can appear laid back but will often be passionate and committed. I have lots of interests and energy. I have 3 children - I who has graduated and lives in Manchester, 1 who is on one big working holiday usually in Asia or Australia and a younger one, who has just finished studying. If you'd like to know more please ask.

I am ambiguous, pragmatic, and socialist.

I like live music - have recently seen such bands as Yeah Yeah Yeahs, Blur, Faithless, Skunk Anansie, Manic Street Preachers, Tracy Chapman, Noisettes and lots more.

I like to travel - but as my photos show this has been rather dangerous.......
What I’m doing with my life
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rushing thru as fast as possible
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I am tall for my height
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Authors - Haruki Murakami, Isabel Allende, Gabriel Garcia Marquez, Ben Okri. I love films - Some Like It Hot is my all-time favourite. At moment Yeah Yeah Yeahs, Blur, Faithless and lots of others. Mainly vegetarian - but dont feel threatened!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Love passion hope children travel and music
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I try not to fixate
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
doing various things - in London or at home in Leigh on Sea - it usually involves meeting mates. I can do other things!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I live by the sea and cannot swim
You should message me if
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if you feel strong