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63 Southend-on-Sea, UK Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 40-55
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 23
5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
Average build
Special Diet
Atheism but it’s not important
Has kid(s)
English (Fluently), French (Somewhat), Russian (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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What I will tell you will probably appear contradictory. I love going with my sons and mates to live football but have also enjoyed La Boheme, a Modigliani exhibition, reading Haruki Murakami, visiting Pompeii. I work in the City but my views are left wing. I can appear laid back but will often be passionate and committed. I have lots of interests and energy. I have 3 children, all in their 20s and independent.

I am ambiguous, pragmatic, and socialist.

I like live music - and in recent times have seen such bands as Yeah Yeah Yeahs, Blur, Faithless, Skunk Anansie, Manic Street Preachers, Tracy Chapman, Noisettes and lots more - as well as local pub bands

I like to travel - but as my photos show this has been rather dangerous.......
What I’m doing with my life
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rushing thru as fast as possible
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am tall for my height
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Authors - Haruki Murakami, Isabel Allende, Gabriel Garcia Marquez, Ben Okri. I love films - Some Like It Hot is my all-time favourite. At moment Yeah Yeah Yeahs, Blur, Faithless and lots of others. Mainly vegetarian - but dont feel threatened!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Love passion hope children travel and music
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I try not to fixate
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
doing various things - in London or at home in Leigh on Sea - it usually involves meeting mates. I can do other things!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I live by the sea and cannot swim
You should message me if
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if you feel strong