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25 San Diego, CA Genderqueer


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 20–30
  • Near me
  • For new friends

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 4:25pm
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Relationship Type
5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
Other but it’s not important
Working on University
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
Has dogs and Has cats
English (Fluently), Sign Language (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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My name is Kevin. I love adventure, nerdy activities, learning and art. I'm an environmental and physical geography major who is also attempting to get a certification in GIS. I have some experience in American Sign Language as well (and am likely hard of hearing), but am no longer actively learning the language.

I'm also a cuddle slut. In fact, my friend named her first homemade alcoholic beverage "Cuddleslut" after me "in the most endearing way" (says her).

Disclaimer: I am no longer seeking sex or romance for I have found a person! I found her on here, too! It was pretty awesome. But I still would love to meet friends! If you are interested, please message me. I'm not active on here but I am notified if a message comes in.
What I’m doing with my life
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I am currently a student. I work as an assistant fencing coach at a nearby fencing studio part time, and I go to my university fulltime. I'm currently looking into internship opportunities, and am hoping to graduate with a BS in Environmental and Physical Geography and a GIS certification. With that, I hope to get a job doing GIS work with a focus on environmental issues, specifically water and drought. I also recently got an internship doing GIS work for the City of El Cajon.
I’m really good at
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I'm really good making and keeping friends. Also, "Kevin is good at being enthusiastic about everything." (Quote from a close friend)

I'm good at learning things as well.

I'm getting increasingly good at presenting myself well for various situations.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm loud and like talking, so people often notice my voice and laugh first. The beard, definitely the beard. I've also been told I have nice eyes and hair. My nerdiness is also immediately obvious.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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My favorite books include The Wheel of Time series (Robert Jordan), Mistborn Trilogy (Brandon Sanderson), Kingkiller Chronicles (Patrick Rothfuss), Pendragon series (DJ Machale), and The Way of Kings (Brandon Sanderson). I also really enjoyed East of Eden, To Kill a Mockingbird, and an abridged translation of Les Miserables.

My favorite TV shows are Stargate Universe, Firefly, and Fringe. Yes, Stargate UNIVERSE.

Favorite movies are probably Lord of the Rings, Star Wars, RENT, Serenity, Pacific Rim, and Mad Max: Fury Road. WHAT A LOVELY DAY.

I have no real favorite genre of music, but I like a wide range of favorite songs, from musical theatre to heavy metal and a lot in between. My favorite bands are Pink Floyd and Blackmore's Night. My favorite musical is Spring Awakening.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I spent a lot of time thinking adventures I would like to have. Some of these adventures are quite possible, while others require me to delve into my imagination and create entire worlds for them.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At home recovering and talking with my girlfriend.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm demiromantic and genderqueer. Also, the fact that I can put genderqueer as my gender on here makes me incredibly happy.
You should message me if
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You're interested in sharing adventures with me. This can be anything from conversation to vacations, so long as you're willing to not just sit around doing nothing. I'm looking for people to hang out with, to talk with, whatever! I'm really looking for any friends living near me. I have a lot of really awesome friends in my online spheres but very few I can spend time with around my home. I'm not exactly full of free time, but if you message me, I will probably message you back.

I'm currently in the market for hiking buddies as well! I don't enjoy hiking alone that much, but I've recently found that its one of my favorite ways of hanging out.

Also, if you have your own foil fencing gear and live near me, hit me up! I'm looking for a fencing partner but don't want to spend the time and money to take classes. I have enough on my plate as is.

You should NOT message me if you think the world would be a better place if we only allowed people with high IQs to breed. If you don't understand why, look up the history of eugenics. Also, look up why IQ scores are not even close to accurate representations of intelligence, but mainly the eugenics thing.