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37 M Minneapolis, MN

My Details

Last Online
Jul 17
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
A little extra
Not at all
Atheism, and laughing about it
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from two-year college
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I am am a writer, a guitar picker, and a very patient teacher (teacher in regards to my occupation that it; I'm a supervisor/instructor of a customer service call center).

I do a lot of thought experiments... I think I may have a working hypothesis concerning the causation of gravity...

I'm a very smart, talented fellow. I'm a voracious autodidact ~ I'm always reading, usually non-fiction. I love writing and am (yaay!) closing in on publishing my first novel.

If I met someone who was utterly wonderful in every way, but who asked me to remain her's alone, I'd gladly oblige.

That being said, I'm perfectly comfortable with the 'open relationship' concept, though this is more philosophical position than an actual practice for me as yet. To elucidate: I'm an enthusiastic supporter of human freedom, and feel that this freedom should extend to relationships and sexuality. While I'd gladly adopt monogamy upon request for the right lady, I don't want to miss out on meeting someone wonderful who happens to be in an open relationship. As for remaining in an open relationship myself, honestly, sure; but it's not so much a requirement for me.

I've found that a great deal of my highest 'Match %' scores are with Ladies who are in open relationships, and since I wouldn't be bothered by a girlfriend who liked seeing other guys, I didn't want to limit my options.

What else should go here? Oh yes...

I'm an atheist (this was largely accomplished by a cover to cover reading the Bible, namely, 'Numbers 31, 18 - 32' ...)

I have absolutely nothing against you if you're a religious person, but I will (thoughtfully and politely) challenge your beliefs if we start dating.

Physically, I'm a pretty big fellow (I like to call myself a 'barrel' ~ not a 'water balloon'). I have been known to push inoperable motor vehicles out of ditches and snowbanks without assistance.

I am very much a feminist, by the correct definition of the word. As a writer, nearly all of my protagonists have been females. Women are simply more interesting to me.
What I’m doing with my life

I finished my first book! Yaaaay!

Now, when I say, "I am a writer!" please don't worry, I am actually employed, lol. I am a supervisor in a call center. Mostly what I do is answer questions (yaaay!) that my team members come up with when helping their callers. I actually enjoy it, believe it or not. I go to work happy, and come home happy. This is pretty much the first job I've ever had where I can say that. lol
I’m really good at
Writing. Playing guitar. Speaking, in general. I do a mean 'Kermit the Frog' impression... I'm really good at rendering explanations of complex ideas.
The first things people usually notice about me
Well, this is coming from me, so it's intrinsically answering the question incorrectly... lol. The first things I think people notice about me are that I'm a broad shouldered, generally happy and amiable fellow. At least, this is what I hope people notice about me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Favorite Book: Walden.

Favorite Movie: Salute of the Jugger (Blood of Heroes in the American release, which is a silly name).

Favorite show: I really don't watch regular television. I do like certain shows, but I'll usually just get the whole series after they've all been released.

Favorite music: Filmscores, soundtracks, instrumentals of all stripes. I have an old flame for blues and Irish/Celtic tunes. I play guitar and bass under a heavy blues influence.

Favorite Food: I cook! Mostly, I'm a stir-fry fellow, but I make an awesome pan seared, oven finished steak. I'd love to cook for ya! ; )
The six things I could never do without
1. Clarity of thought
2. The ability to write
3. The ability to make music
4. Cognitive challenge
5. Books of all stripes
6. Questions to answer
I spend a lot of time thinking about
For some reason lately, the hydrocarbon lakes discovered on Titan have really been in my thoughts a lot lately. I don't know why exactly; just the idea that there are lakes of liquid butane the size of lake Superior on one of Saturn's moons has utterly captivated me. The idea of standing on a beach, the temperature a balmy -300 degrees, taking in a sky almost entirely blotted out by the planet Saturn and its rings, this fantastic image doubled against the placid surface of a liquid body absolutely brimming with chemical energy...
On a typical Friday night I am
Writing! lol. At home, at the computer, writing. Yep. I know. Part of the reason I'm on here is to help fix this...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Geez. What a question! Ok.... ???

I had a massive crush on Penny Gadget when I was 6? lol
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 20–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You should message me if you are looking for a smart, thoughtful fellow who will happily respect and protect you. If you are looking for a fella who will offer you honesty, courtesy, and who will keep his promises. Message me if you'd like a guy who never clouds his mind with drugs or alcohol (never started either). Message me if you want a stable fellow who works his 50 hour week and enjoys it, and who won't complain about it or ask to borrow money (lol). Message away!