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Lelias

46 San Francisco, CA Woman

Woman

I’m looking for

  • Men who like women
  • Ages 35–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 10:05pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Judaism, and laughing about it
Sign
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Other
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has a kid
Pets
Has dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Hebrew (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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East coaster turned Californian. You'll never take the east coast out of me, but love the weather out here more. I'm comfortable in an art gallery/museum, going to City Arts and Lectures or sitting on the couch in comfy clothes watching a good movie. Love to cook and hang out with friends. I have friends over for dinner at my house every other Friday night. It's become a little ritual. Our lives are so full and busy, it's nice to know we will all see each other in two weeks to catch up. Sometimes we are all to tired to cook so we order good fricken chicken. If you don't know the restaurant, it's really fricken good. The house can become a little raucous, when the kids are around or even when they are not. A little chaos is good.

I moved to San Francisco for grad school in fine arts and never left. Instead I ran my own photography business for 12 years. Switched careers for practical reasons. An awesome baby boy came into my life. My son spends half has time with his dad. Now I reap the benefits of a new career and some free time. Always learning and discovering.

I'm a very physical person, athletically and sensually. I've rediscovered road biking recently and have become a little addicted to it. I also run and enter races every once in a while. Hope to enter a triathalon someday, when my schedule allows it. After that, I love to hug, cuddle and snuggle.

Music is also pretty important. I'm always on the search for new eclectic bands to listen to online or to see live. Good music makes me feel good. Whether its live local bands or a dj spinning at a night club, its a good way to let go and just be. That may sound kind of hippy but its not. Ballet and Modern Dancing was a part of my life as teenager and young adult. (Not that I don't still think of myself as a young adult, I just got carded when I bought a bottle of wine, ha ha ha.) I don't expect my partner to do the same exercise that I do. If you do that's a bonus. Basically, music + moving my body and being outdoors = Happy.

I like to work on projects, like growing a garden. Although, I'm not very good at it, I have fun trying. The art/photo projects have been on the back burner lately someday soon they will creep back up to the front.

Am willing to discover new things. I might be past considering parachuting or bungee jumping but I'm certainly up for a new adventure.

I don't fancy myself as a great writer, so if you've gotten this far, thanks. I'm much more of a physical and visual person.
What I’m doing with my life
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Having fun and working hard.

I think life is about your friends and family. They make me happy, sad, angry or on top of the world. Sometimes all at the same time. Wouldn't want to be without them.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Answering these questions.

Listening, being patient, helping my friends, multitasking, being super silly, being a woman.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My hair.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I have a wide range of tastes, it depends on the day or night. Most recent book was the Gumbo tales (finding my place at the new Orleans table) by Sara Roahen. I love new orleans.

Movies: I like going to the movies. Especially the older neighborhood theatres.

Most recent music, I love seeing live music. There are some great new venues in the mission. www.myspoonfull.com. I love to watch ok go video's because they are hysterical. I love a band that does not take themselves to seriously.

I love food. I'll try most anything at least once.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Breathing
Culture
Hugs
My son
My family
My friends

Not in that order.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
what's outside the box. An adventure. An inside the house adventure or who knows where it could go.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
What's typical
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'll let you know after we talk. I'm a fairly private person
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you are incredibly intelligent. Intelligence is so so sexy.
If you are physically active. I am, I think it is difficult for a partner to understand the need to be physically active if they are not themselves.

Respect the fact that we both have lived very full lives and we both will come with past experiences that shape who we are. That will make us stronger and more understanding of what we want.