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I am sarcastic, quirky, and amused

LenaBK

24 / f / bisexual / Single

Decatur, Georgia, United States

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Ethnicity White

Height 5' 7" (1.70m).

Looking For New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating

Smokes Sometimes

Drinks Often

Drugs Sometimes

Religion Other but not too serious about it

Sign Libra and it's fun to think about

Education Dropped out of college/university

Job Education / Academia

Income $20,000-$30,000

Kids Has 1 child

Pets Owns cats

Languages English, French (Okay)

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My self-summary

I'm never really sure where to start with these things, but I recently read a suggestion that you write like you're talking to someone you already know so I'm going to just type here:

I'm 24. I'm a single mother to an incredibly and, yes, even astoundingly complex little boy. He's one. I never could have imagined what a ride that would be.

I think an individual should constantly be growing, and so I find it hard to sum myself up in a space on a webpage. But I'm here because I'm looking for someone who wants to go on that adventure along with me. For a short time or for a long time, figuring that bit out is part of it.

What I'm doing with my life

I spend four days a week with my son. When he's with his father I work part time as a teacher for Gymboree (teaching structured play classes and art classes to toddlers and infants). I adore my job. It's incredibly fulfilling and even the worst days I am grateful for it, and love it. Those two a fairly consuming. When I'm not doing either of those I love to spend my time going to see theatre or movies, or sharing a pint with friends at a pub. Artistic expression is a huge part of my life, and I am constantly trying to find new ways to tap into that (both through my own expression and as an observer/audience member).

I'm really good at

reading folks. I read tarot cards on the side (mostly for friends but I've also worked a few parties). I'm a pretty intuitive person and it's one of the most fulfilling things in my life to do. (besides from being a mom and my job)

and that said I seem to be really good at putting my foot in my mouth on occaision as well.

The first thing(s) people usually notice about me

I'm told: my eyes. my laugh.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books: Jane Eyre, The Great and Secret Show (and it's sequel Everville) , Fight Club, Be Here Now, Stiff (currently reading her follow up: Spook), The Door in the Attic, Atlast Shrugged, The Dharma Bums, The Witching Hour by Anne Rice (like the whole series, but the first is truly the best of the bunch),

Movies: Darjhiling Limited (really anything by Wes Anderson), Cyrano de Bergerac, Once, Grosse Pointe Blank, Sliding Doors, East of Eden, Donnie Darko, American Dreamz, Love Actually, A Clockwork Orange, Once, Love Me If You Dare, Hans Christian Anderson, The Manchurian Candidate (the ORIGINAL), High Fidelity, Iluminata, Romance & Cigarrettes,

Music: the Dresden Dolls (and now Amanda Palmer), The Builders and Butchers, Nina Simone, Tom Waits, The Who, White Stripes, Tenacious D, Vermillion Lies, The Red Paintings, Sxip Shirey, Humanwine, Sara Bariselles (sp?), Regina Spektor, Ben Folds,

TV: House, Big Love, Dexter, Big Bang Theory, How I Met Your Mother, and I will admit to a few reality TV guilty pleasures.

The six things I could never do without

in no particular order:

1. my son
2. a good book to read
3. music
4. the love of good people who enrich my life
5. my car
6. my sense of humor

I spend a lot of time thinking about

way too many things. I am one of those people who like to curl up and write in the journals endlessly. I have a bad habit of over thinking things, and I am CONSTANTLY analyzing something.

On a typical Friday night I am

well that can vary, some Fri's I'm chilling out at home after a busy day at work. Other friday's I hit my favorite pub and try to meet up with friends. Other nights I go check out theatre or head out for a movie night with folks. It really varries.

The most private thing I'm willing to admit here

is that I have priavte thoughts.

You should message me if

You are of legal drinking age.

You aren't just looking for a one night stand.

You are looking for good conversation over good food and a beer or two.

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