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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 34-54
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Apr 4
5' 3" (1.60m)
Body Type
Christianity and laughing about it
Working on Post grad
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs
English (Fluently), Chinese (Fluently), LISP (Fluently), Greek
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I want a man to settle me down to medium focus, calmness and contentment, rather than me being the driven one. I want someone who is my spiritual, mental, emotional and physical equal. Add me on wechat on the same username, if you can get past the gate - with your okcupid nick.

For friendship, you can be whoever you are, so long as you aren't trying to sell me things I don't want!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
αʹ Gamifying it & winning or losing, I like being competitive & trying my best to be the best :D

βʹ Trying (and failing!) to get my waist back to waistline of 22/23"

γʹ I think trying to keep God at the centre. :) then myself, then my family, then friends of the concentric circles.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
1. Driving & navigating in any city, with any car, be it a 5 litre bmw or 20 year-old proton manual.

2. Being logical, bringing out the best and worst in people (this goes hand-in-hand with stating logic), being interested in how things work/flow together, be they visual or intangible.

3. Proof-reading & editing services (published/unpublished work).
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Ah... good question about the "first things"- I've not as yet saliently explored before coming across this question. I know my female friends think i'm always well-dressed. Haha, I dress for them, I guess! :)

Are you ready to meet to form your own impressions as to the thrum we may form? Life's not as a fun in a solo.

I notice and admire men who are fit. Even if there are spots they don't feel good on, I appreciate the attempts to do sports or I appreciate being cajoled to working out together even at different speeds.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I do everything widely, kinda like a mosquito :) imbibing the essence of non-fried foods, great music, view-changing movies and books.

I really like dancing. ^_^ but the most I can claim is that I don't step on feet. I really appreciate a good partner, then it becomes magical, even for a while.

If you perceive human beings as being defined by their tastes, then I guess I'm only selectively mainstream, because most of what's mainstream (not saying all) is disposable.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
That depends on the situation... but for long-term:
א. Spiritual fruit
ב. Nail clippers/ scissors
ג. Communication enablers/ devices
ד. Contentment
ה. Vehicle
ו. Toilet paper (trust me,.. leaves don't do as well!)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I've spiderwebs in my brain. :D - Why doesn't anyone help me blow them away? :D

Whether counsellors/life coaches are as messed up as their patients, just that they are on the right side of the invoice.

How much time will it take before I finally psycho myself to love paperwork? :D

When is my next multiple orgasm (not meal, mind you!)

The golden ratio

How can I have the necessary verbal skills to gently deflate a man's ego without wounding his pride?

Who's the wisest of us all?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
till 7pm - tying up loose ends at work
8pm - finished dinner
8.30-11.30pm - Bible Study/Small/Life/Cell group
After Midnight - joining the tail end of secular parties
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Since 90% of my visitors are males of all orientation, here is some straight-talk. I am straight and have felt the heady feelings of lust when I was younger with gorgeous eye candy, but no matter no matter how sweet or tempting the hunks, I didn't physically indulge so I'm looking for someone with such physical self-control and mental focus. :) But I doubt I'd find anyone like that any more so I doubt I'd be getting married, so you guys are all safe from me having designs on you all other than as friends. I.e. everyone should not have expectations about getting out of Friendzone a la :). There you go! My down and dirty.
You should message me if
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You can respect my life & my choices whilst expressing your own, aren't looking for sex in any size, shape or form. You don't waste time by making small talk, aren't spoiled rotten, would like to push for a serious relationship or friendship - but if it doesn't happen? then to be coast along with a lifelong easy friendship ( I will always allow you to be you, and not try to change you!). Attractiveness and personality is a great combination, it can get us far but perhaps the time will come for you when we will finally get bored and say “something is missing from this!” and realize that you want someone who can keep up with your intellectual capability. I've never been incompatible with anyone intelligent OR unassuming, and if you are that, having a 0% match with me will be exciting.

If you've made it so far through this profile, you can definitely embark on your PhD :) I don't mind doing more of these things with you whilst we get to know each other:

1. Playing Guitar Hero/Other xbox/Wii games at St Games @ the Cathay ($18 pax/ 3hrs)
2. Playing Squash/Tennis/Basketball/Golf
($0 pax/ hr except for Golf lol)
3. Exercising/ Hiking & Running & Trekking (anywhere in Singapore) ($0 pax/ hr)

4. Book/Board Games or Coffee Club/TCC/Yakun or australian coffee Cafes ($5 pax/ hr)
5. Movies (I say this reluctantly - because a movie is kinda a fail-safe, not likely to dazzle meet)($5 pax/ hr)

6. Groupon or Fine Dining ($5 pax/ hr to $50 pax/hr)
7. You can suggest other face-to-face non-sexual activities :P like dancing vertically (!) ($cover charge pax/ NA hr)
8. Go for each other's church services if you are also a Christian/Catholic/Jehovah's Witness etc. - I go for Mandarin though!
9. Go JB with me to pump petrol.

PAX! :)