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43 F San Jose, CA

My Details

Last Online
Jul 7, 2005
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Other, but not too serious about it
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from high school
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t want kids
Has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I don't even know why i'm here because i'm so not in a place where i could even do anything about anything since i'm working two jobs right now...except that this stuff is kind of funny to think about and emails are a nice distraction when you're hell bent on blowing off the responsibilities at work. My personality right now is best described as "sleepy" and i'm quite fond of ellipses and run on sentences. i'm addicted to art in all of it's variations. i love to paint but i haven't had time to in the last year because of the two jobs so i'm mostly toting my sketchbook and pens with me everywhere.

I am red-headed, empathetic, and artistic
What I’m doing with my life
right now? playing catchup after a 2002 layoff and being sub-employed for a year. It seriously kicked my boo-tay.
I’m really good at
painting and drawing. sleeping. watching dvds. yelling at the cats when one of them takes a midnight poo so smelly it actually wakes you up (i hate that).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
if we mean the last year as in, the last non-calendar year...Harry Potter and the Prisoner of Azkaban. Kill Bill 2 also kicked booty (but i read the script before i saw the movie so i already knew what was going to happen). Cold Mountain was good but the book was way better. oh also...spotless mind was incredible and finely woven...pull one thread and it would have fallen appart. awesome. almost forgot lord of the rings which is just a given.
The six things I could never do without
Pigma Micron pens. oil paint(and related supplies). overcast/rainy days(and related survival kit - hot tea/booze, dvds, newspaper, blankie, naked person for general snogging etc. ). comics. my jobs. sleep.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
no one. (though i do sometimes think about what this would be like when i'm in an argument with someone and they're being totally illogical and helps to understand a little even though you feel like punching them in the face.)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
i haven't shaved my legs since the last time i had sex.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 28–72
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
you're up for chatting and trading emails and all that but willing to understand that it may be a few months before i can make it out for a cup of coffee.