I am pagan,polyamorous,and into the BDSM scene. I am the LeoClan Mistress and live in Fairborn Ohio until the end of the month when W/we move. I am the Moderator and Trainer for a local alternative lifestyle support group and love every minute of it. I have a collared submissive and she serves My Clan, and am not really looking for any new submissives for Myself, but am always willing to help others find their niche in life and assist them along the way. Because W/we do NOT use sex in O/our scenes and training, it is hard to accept new people into O/our clan and training.

We are the Sponsors and creators of the Annual Fetish and Masquerade Ball It is in October every year and the last 2 have been a blast and a half. We look forward to each and every one.

We like to go to Munch on fridays on occasion and meet up with other kinky people like ourselves. We also belong to several yahoo groups pertaining to the lifestyle.

We are music lovers and our tastes range from the most obscure to modern sounds. We are eclectic in our tastes. We come from military backgrounds and have a law enforcement household as well. The Mistress is a singer and songwriter and works professionally outside the home the Master is a Military Police officer and a Corrections officer. Our submissive is a professional outside the home and works with the Mistress as well.

We have many pets in our home, 3 cats a dog and a bird.We are looking into being rescue foster owners for exotic snakes in the near future. We are an extremely loving household and love to talk to others about the BDSM and D/s lifestyle.

We look forward to chatting with you.

Training others in the wonderful art of BDSM and D/s relationships.

Working....ALOT.

Hosting private parties once a month.

Moving into a new bigger house soon, same general area only 15 minutes from here.

Most things in life. I am always looking for new things to conquer and challenge Me.

I am good at cooking, baking more specifically, confectionary skills, singing, songwriting, poetry writing, book writing, saxaphone playing (tenor sax primarily), music in general, crafts and crafting, teaching, training, moderating My own groups, event planning, shopping, massages, floggings, canings, scenes in general, Dominating others, teasing, flirting and lots of other stuff.

The first thing would have to be my personality. I am extremely open and out there. The next would be a tie between my eyes and my chest..LOL The eyes are the ones without the nipples...lmao.

I also have a corny sense of humor.

Music... Hmm... It starts with...techno, goth, rave, country, folk, new age, modern, dance, pop, My absolute favorite bands are Fleetwood Mac, Stevie Nicks, Type O negative, the Misfits, Marilyn Manson, Sarah McLachlan, Emilie Autumn, Cruxshadows, Rasmus and many others.

Movies..... Rocky Horror of course..lol Labyrinth, Stardust, Pirates of the Caribean, Dark Crystal, Cool Devices, Hackers, Phantom of the opera, Gypsy83, Ladder 49, Blade trillogy, Lord of the Rings Trillogy, The Princess Bride, the Secretary, But Im a Cheerleader....etc...

Television..... Well I dont watch TV much but when I did, I loved the Simpsons, The L Word, CSI, Law and Order SVU and a few other meaningless shows here and there.

Books....... Laurell K. Hamilton Books. The Merry Gentry Series and The Anita Blake series. Stephen King Books. Dean Kootz Books. Anne Rice Books. Sleeping Beauty Chronicles. The list goes on and on...lol

Heroes...... Heroes are people waiting to be knocked off the pedistal they have been placed upon. Never look for a Hero, just look at a good person. Even if good is relative to the situation. Just remember... Charles Manson and Adolph Hitler were someones heroes once... do you really want to idolize someone? I know I dont.

1) My pets.They are my little furr babies.. I have currently 3 cats, 1 dog, and 1 bird if you dont count the humans in the household..lol Yeah I live in a menagere. But its loving and acceptable to Me.

2) My lifestyle. My lifestyle is something that is just a part of Me. Its like oxygen. I cant live without it. If I had to, it would be a very short existence. The reason I am who I am is because of this lifestyle. Not only is it something that helps define Me for who I am and who I strive to be, its the most open and honest lifestyle I have ever been a part of and have enjoyed for the last 15 years.

3) The love of My life. My husband the Co-Dom and my submissive girlfriend kitten.

4) My friends. Honestly, who can live without friends? It must be a sad and lonely existance if you are able to go through life without a single friend. If it wasnt for my friends I'd be a complete mess in life. They are what balances Me and keeps Me sane..lol

5) My family. My mother was a hippy from waaay back and My father former millitary gone Civil Service. I didnt have any natural siblings so I have always been the center of their world. Before you ask, yes they know ALL about My lifestyle and are proud of My stand in this world. They are the reason I can be so free and loving of other people. That love has no limits and no expectations. Love just IS and that is all.

6) My dungeon. I think that one is pretty much self explanitory. LOL I do love My dubgeon. Not because I scene every day but because its a beautiful scerene and relazing room. Built with a harem in mind, this room is My sanctuary. It is where I am the most creative. I write in there, sing in there, scene in there and meditate in there. I simply adore My dungeon.

How the hell Im going to pack up a lifetime, once again, and move without any incidents...lol

Building new dungeon equipment and furniture for playing...

and random Raven Ramblings like this one...

:::::RAVEN RAMBLING::::: .."A condom is the glass slipper of our generation. You slip one on when you meet a stranger. You dance all night. Then, you throw it away... the condom, I mean, not the stranger..."

I am decompressing from work and having My weekly visit from My misseusse.

Watching a movie with the girlfriend or spending time in general with her.

Trying to get to bed at a reasonable hour to make it to work the next day.

And of course.. talking to friends and random people online.

Besides what I already wrote?? Could there BE any more??? LOL

You are interested in the BDSM lifestyle. You are interested in local support groups, or just need an understanding ear or a new friend.

Or if you are just generally currious.