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  • Ages 23–38
  • Located anywhere
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My details

Last online
Jul 17
Native American, Hispanic / Latin, White
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Seeing Someone
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), French (Okay)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Writer, retired coffee-pusher-turned-runner, spiritualist, apprentice (M)ad man, (only the best causes), and psycho-naut.

INFJ: if that sort of Jungy-thing interests you—there are less than 1% of us on the planet—this is your chance!! 8-D

You'll find me in, on, or around trees.

[Update/Disclaimer: I'm in a new relationship as of January 7th. I still adore witty conversations with clever and interesting people who make me think and inspire me to write. Workout buddies, fellow literati, and hiking companions are welcome; I'm just not looking for new relationships or romantic connections at the moment.]
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm a writer. Also sometimes a theatre artist—going back to school to learn work in the fields of advertising and copywriting while simultaneously doing work in the literal fields of organic farms in Scandinavia, Australia, and Thailand. Practicing Vipassana meditation.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I can't get enough of the vastness. Nature's ma thang.

I love cooking for others. I won't ask you to help—Just lounge, have some wine, and talk at me.

Mystic shit: Reading your Tarot or I Ching.

Listening: I am very good at absorbing what's on people's minds, offering sensitive counsel, and generally being a pocket therapist.

And writing: it's a place where honesty triumphs over protection.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Ask me to say "It's a walk off..." :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Shibumi's still my one true love. But see also: Hesse, Nietzsche, Alejandro Zambra, Lars Iyer, Beckett, Chekhov, Hemingway, Fitzgerald.
Harold says what I need is WAR AND PEACE. I agree, but it's long.

And then: Burn After Reading, Closer, The Tree of Life, The Jerk (And all Steve Martin), Miyazaki Films, Jean-Luc Godard, Y Tu Mama Tambien, MADMEN, House of Cards, Seinfeld, Rocko's Modern Life, Animal Collective, Washed Out, Grizzly Bear, and Mozart.

Chomp: Cuy, snails… Try anything once.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Sincerity. (Share it.)
Meditation. (Do this.)
Books. (Read 'em.)
Human touch. (Warmth.)
Trees. (Climb.)
Laughter. (Give.)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Young Woman: "What do you have to worry about?"
Thomas Crown: "Who I want to be tomorrow."
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Up late.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I use emojiis. Pictures rock. Expect horse-heads and salsa-girls to be littering your screens when we chat.
You should message me if
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You're a confident individual who is open minded and present. I'm looking for those who know how to accept their emotions and be thoroughly honest with themselves and others. Be a reader, be a listener, and be vulnerable—it's the strongest you can be.

That said…

Have grace and conduct yourself with a mix of sensitivity, wildness and fun—I promise I'll meet you there. :)