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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 23–38
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends

My details

Last online
Sep 24
Heteroflexible, Bisexual
Native American, Hispanic / Latin, White
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
6' 0" (1.83m)
Body Type
Might want kids
English (Fluently), French (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Writer, retired coffee-pusher-turned-runner, spiritualist, advocate, counselor, and psycho-naut.

INFJ: if that sort of Jungy-thing interests you—there are less than 1% of us on the planet—this is your chance!! 8-D

You'll find me in, on, or around trees.

[Update/Disclaimer: I'm in a new relationship as of January 7th. I still adore witty conversations with clever and interesting people who make me think and inspire me to write. Intellegensia, Workout buddies, fellow literati, and hiking companions are welcome; If you are an attractive gay/bi male, and are interested in hooking up or playing with my lady and I—hit me up! Let's talk about it. :) I'm just not looking for new relationships at the moment.]
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm a writer. Also sometimes a theatre artist—going back to school to become a professor and counselor while simultaneously doing work in the literal fields of organic farms in Scandinavia, Australia, and Thailand. Practicing Vipassana meditation.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I can't get enough of the vastness. Nature's ma thang.

I love cooking for others. I won't ask you to help—Just lounge, have some wine, and talk at me.

Mystic shit: Reading your Tarot or I Ching.

Listening: I am very good at absorbing what's on people's minds, offering sensitive counsel, and generally being a pocket therapist.

And writing: it's a place where honesty triumphs over protection.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Ask me to say "It's a walk off..." :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Shibumi's still my one true love. But see also: Hesse, Nietzsche, Alejandro Zambra, Lars Iyer, Beckett, Chekhov, Hemingway, Fitzgerald.
Harold says what I need is WAR AND PEACE. I agree, but it's long.

And then: Burn After Reading, Closer, The Tree of Life, The Jerk (And all Steve Martin), Miyazaki Films, Jean-Luc Godard, Y Tu Mama Tambien, MADMEN, House of Cards, Seinfeld, Rocko's Modern Life, Animal Collective, Washed Out, Grizzly Bear, and Mozart.

Chomp: Cuy, snails… Try anything once.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Sincerity. (Share it.)
Meditation. (Do this.)
Books. (Read 'em.)
Human touch. (Warmth.)
Trees. (Climb.)
Laughter. (Give.)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Young Woman: "What do you have to worry about?"
Thomas Crown: "Who I want to be tomorrow."
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Up late.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I use emojiis. Pictures rock. Expect horse-heads and salsa-girls to be littering your screens when we chat.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're a confident individual who is open minded and present. I'm looking for those who know how to accept their emotions and be thoroughly honest with themselves and others. Be a reader, be a listener, and be vulnerable—it's the strongest you can be.

That said…

Have grace and conduct yourself with a mix of sensitivity, wildness and fun—I promise I'll meet you there. :)