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40 Brooklyn, NY Woman


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 35–50
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

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Yesterday – 5:26pm
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Buddhism, and laughing about it
Ph.D program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type

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My self-summary
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I recently re-activated my profile and need to work on this summary.

Briefly though, I am an adventurous, happy, stable person, looking to meet someone dazzling. I have worked hard to cultivate my current life (interests, friends, career), and I hope to find the right person to develop a true partnership. In the meantime, finding an accomplice for madcap urban capers will do just fine.
What I’m doing with my life
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Ultimately, striving to live with ease and grace.

I work as a strategy consultant, though I used to be a documentary photographer and still shoot projects.

I am committed to social justice.
I like to explore (city, country, far away lands).
I make stuff (cooking, knitting).
I stay active (hiking, swimming, yoga).
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
- Analysis (business, cultural, psychological, and others)
- Being a constant learner
- Creating everyday moments of goodness
- Drinking classic cocktails and laughing too loudly
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm not sure - the earnestness or the sarcasm.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Currently reading Lila by Marilynne Robinson, re-reading some Alain de Botton, and still slogging through Picketty's Capital

Grey Gardens, Harold & Maude, Rear Window
Recent favorites - Skeleton Twins, Force Majeure, Boyhood

Joni Mitchell, Kronos Quartet,Bill Evans
Indie (Beck, Broken Bells, HAIM, Tegan + Sara, etc.)
The Jackson Five's "I Want You Back" makes me deliriously happy
Also a podcast addict

Really good coffee, dark chocolate, jasmine green tea
Sometimes simply healthy, sometimes paleo
Always checking out the latest neighborhood gems
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
- The big stuff - family, friends, mountains, oceans, social justice
- The other stuff - art / dance / music / poetry
- Oscar (I am I because my little dog knows me)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
- Human behavior
- How to improve my yoga practice
- My next travel adventure (near or far)
- Photography
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Roller skating on rainbows with unicorns...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I am a very private person...
You should message me if
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We share interests + sensibility; you're kind, curious, and action-oriented; you have worked through most of your issues; you are looking for something real.

Or if you want an accomplice for city adventures, dog walks, scuba diving, or tennis.

Please do not message me if your a couple. Seriously. I'm not interested.

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