Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am a clinical counselor in the Chicago Public School system (and
an adjunct college professor) who loves helping people and problem
solving. I like to have a good time when I'm off. I like dancing,
working out, fine dining, all types of music, travel and much more.
I don't like to sit still for long unless I'm enjoying a movie at
home with good company. I like to exercise and right now I admit
that sometimes have a hard time getting motivated. It would be
great to find someone who is active.
I am very passionate about my friends, family and the people who I
love. I suppose I am old fashioned in that respect. And yes! The
profile picture is fairly recent (May 2015).
I am an animal lover. So, if you don't like pets you shouldn't read
any further. I do not want a man who is going to tell me to get rid
of them. And, no matter how much I emphasize this . . . I am NOT
looking for a man 1/2 my age. ;-) However, it would be great to
find a man who takes care of himself emotionally and
Also, if you have issues like homophobia or can't handle people of
color, we will not be a good match. Don't waste my time. I love
people, ALL people.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
trying to be mindful of the moment, living everyday as it comes and
trying to make the best of each one. We are not promised a lot of
time on this earth. I'm a perpetual learner and I'm always thinking
of going forward with my next degree. I am very analytic and
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
making people feel comfortable, developing respect and rapport. I'm
also good at writing, editing, computer and analytical skills. I'm
good at making people feel loved, cared about, important and a
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My smile, my warmth, my youthful appearance, my integrity, honesty
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
This will be an ongoing essay as I have so much to write.
Music: I love Sade! R&B, Reggae, Some Hip-Hop, Soft Rock, Some
Shows: any CSI, Law and Order, Criminal Minds, anything with an
Books: A Hope in the Unseen, The Family Crucible, There are no
children here. I have no favorite authors but rather like books
that add expertise to my craft and insight into my life. (I'll have
to complete this later - ;-)
Movies: I like suspense, comedy, drama. I have too many books and
movies to list but I like most movies. Books are generally ones
that pertain to my profession.
Food: Mexican, Cuban, Greek, Italian, Middle Eastern, Indian, Soul,
Spicy Food in general.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My family, love, affection, work, pets, Mexican food and my
computer and electronics. Oops that is more than six. I never liked
these question boundaries. LOL
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
my future, where I want to travel and always continuing my
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
My Friday's are not typical but ideally I prefer to have an easy or
relaxing Friday. On other Friday's I party, I relax, I sleep . . ..
It really varies from Friday to Friday depending on my obligations
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
It's just not private if I post it on the web so that is for you to
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You like smart, independent attractive women who know what they
want. You don't have age hang-ups and your are secure with who you
are. Your confidence level is high. You like to have fun, exercise,
show affection when appropriate, willing to try new things,
adventure, like good conversation, various cuisines, pets,
commitment to monogamy, creativity and travel. If you are the one,
Who are you looking for?
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