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55 M Somerville, MA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 40–54
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 28
6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body Type
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), Italian (Okay)

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My self-summary
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Hello out there! I'm a professional saxophonist, bandleader and record company owner. I'm intelligent, creative, accomplished, sensual, attractive, experienced, warm, understanding, perceptive, funny. And despite that first sentence, I'm actually modest and realistic (being a musician keeps you humble!) I know how to cook, to give a massage, I have many stories of travel, music and lots of ideas about society, politics, art, psychology. I see connections between all kinds of seemingly unrelated things. I have hung out with homeless people in Africa and millionaires in mansions, communists and conservatives, rockers and classical virtuosos. I work hard and I love to play hooky. I'm hard to figure out. I love creating experiences for other people, musical, culinary or sensory. I'm looking for a woman who is sexy, laid back, understanding, kind, independent, bright, emotionally balanced, confident, secure. Moms are welcome (I'm a dad myself), all professions are ok. However, an appreciation of culture and the artistic process and lifestyle would be useful. I'm attracted to women who are interesting in their appearance, intellect, background. Not interested in shallow, superficial or pretentious people. Having said all that, I know that no nobody is perfect, we all struggle and that everybody is in process. In the end, I'm looking to enjoy life and would like to find someone nice with whom to do that!

I am humorous, talented, and subtle
What I’m doing with my life
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Looking for the next gig and then going and playing it, no matter where on earth it is. Raising my son. Trying to ski moguls better. Trying to play the soprano saxophone in tune. Figuring out what I will do when I grow up.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Thinking, understanding other people, playing the sax, composing, cooking, being funny. Becoming addicted to a new activity. Rearranging my schedule. Reading embassy web sites to see who needs a visa to go to what country.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My height, my lips, my sense of humor. That I get along with almost everybody.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Duke Ellington, Mingus, the Beatles, Sly and the Family Stone, Debussy, all things Ethiopian, the Atlantic Monthly, the New Yorker, T. Corghessian Boyle novels, Fellini, greens sauteed with olive oil and garlic, grilled fish, meat cooked until it's ready to fall apart on the fork, real tomatoes.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Music, sensual pleasures, good food, my son, adventure, problems to solve.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Where the next gig is coming from.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
On a gig, taking care of my son, cooking.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm quite open but remain mysterious even to some of my best friends.
You should message me if
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You are intelligent, sexy, interesting, adventurous, are yourself.