I find that life is too short and nothing is garunteed when it comes to people. I think that if we do not make our lives better no one will. I love to help others out but hate to be used. I prefer foreplay to straight sex(prefer not want only). I am very creative and imaganitive, i enjoy reading, painting, sculpting and being a dad. I love cooking, for one or 10 and love to try new things. I despise liars in any way shape or form if you cannot tell the truth then you are obviously not being a very decent person and should really consider why your actions require you to lie about something (ommitting facts falls into that too). I have been married for almost 8 years, my roomate and i raise our kids and thats about it. I have two kids and they are wonderful. I refer to my wife as a roomate because that is what she is, we may be legally married but she used me to get away from a bad situation and does not see anything wrong with that, she does not love, does not care to try and will not leave. I tried leaving after my daughter was born and she fought it till i was penniless. So we raise our kids and share a house, i cook, clean and take care of the kids and work as an aircraft mechanic(not for the airlines i do not make a alot). I want an intamate sexual relationship and its not gonna happen with my roomate so i am going to find it somewhere else and yes i have told her is she is unwilling to provide what i need i will find it else where.
I am confident, secure, and giving