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Lezosian

36 / M / Gay / Single

Saginaw, Michigan

His Details

Last Online
Apr 20
Ethnicity
Black, Other
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m).
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism but not too serious about it
Sign
Aries and it matters a lot
Education
Graduated from high school
Job
Unemployed
Income
Less than $20,000
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Disclaimer:
Currently I am on Parole for two years after being in Prison for 19 months for breaking and entering a restaurant I was previously fired from 2 weeks prior; all in a search to appease my out of control drug habit. My release back into society took place on 10 Jan 2012. As of July 2012, thanks in part to the time spent in exile; I have achieved 26 months without the use of any drug save a beer or two. However, there are issues from the past that have caused damage and require medication to correct. Now, I attend therapy, and participate in mental health treatment along with cognitive behavioral therapy to resolve the issues of bi-polar, depression, and recently panic attacks a gift from exile.

At a glance the following apply:
Ex-con
Felon
Former Drug Addict
Mental Health participant
Major Geek
Avid reader and seeker of knowledge
Lover of anything England
Helpless romantic
Science Fiction and fantasy lover

If the above has caused you distaste then you may want to move on to someone else. Only true honesty is spoken by me, nothing less. I would rather one communicate with me knowing the larger majority of my previous experiences than to know nothing and form an idea in the dark. I do not consider my past to be a failure; but, rather a series of experiences that could not have gone any other way.

I am very laid back with an understanding that allows great reserves of patience. People should be open and honest about what they want. With that being said, I prefer white guys, however, I am open to everyone)
What I’m doing with my life
That is unclear at the moment. I am very close to going back to school to figure that out. The main objective is to focus on one moment at a time. Leave the rest as it is.
I’m really good at
Communication: I have come to enjoy the written and spoken words of English. If someone uses the right words, with just the right inflection and tone and uses good enunciation, one can create a sublime work of art.

Information: I tend to be a walking database of information from many sources. I seek out information from the moment I wake till the time I rest. The major motivation behind this data gathering is simply to know. Not to mention my date a birth plays a roll – 11 April or 411 – Information. :-)
The first things people usually notice about me
My dimples are huge and go deep when I smile. Plus, a deeply intense yet, knowing look of observation.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Book:
I will mention some of the authors that are number 1 on my list. They would be: Dean Koontz, R.A. Salvatore, Mercedys Lackey, Storm Constantine, and Brian Lumley, George R.R. Martin, Dan Brown, Issac Asimov.

Music:
My tastes are broad. Today's rap truly is the only one genre of music that I can say I do not get into. All other music has a time a place where it will simply fit.

Food:
I have begun changing my eating habits though I can't say what that change will bring. I can express my love of Italian food and Southern cooking along with Cheese (Goata, Munster, Asiago, Swiss, Vermont White X Sharp Cheddar), Cereal (Cinnamon Toast Crunch and Honey Bunches of Oats) and Baby Carrots, Cucumber, Tomatoes, rank high atop my list.

Movies:
I am a big into Romantic Comedies, Period Movies, Fantasy and Science Fiction. I think the best movies out there on average are Independent Films.

TV Shows:
I love anything with star in the name, Star Trek, Star Wars, Star Gate, Battlestar Galactica to name some.
I also like Eli Stone, ReGenesis (Canadian Production), Merlin (BBC Production), Kyle XY, Teachers (English), Eureka, Lost Girl, Warehouse 13, The Tudors, Borgia’s, Downtown Abbey.
The six things I could never do without
1. Place to live
2. Food
3. Water
4. My books
5. My mother
6. My mind
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I would say I spend more time in study and research than thinking. I have come to understand the internet as a vast library of knowledge. In this sense, why not take advantage of the information that is readily available.
But, if I were to express what I think it would be hard as my mind goes in different directions at the same time.

Currently:
What is the fabric that lies between reality and fantasy?
On a typical Friday night I am
I have become more of a home body. I have experienced what is out there in the streets. My desires are for something more and until I find it, my home is the best place on a friday night.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
It would seem that this has already been answered in some detail above.
I’m looking for
  • Gay guys only
  • Ages 27–41
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, activity partners, long-distance penpals
You should message me if
...you can carry on a conversation.
...you have similar interests as those listed.
...you can enjoy either a beer, coffee, bowling, or karaoke.
...looking for something more in a relationship with a friend, or romantic interest.
...you made it this far and find yourself curious to know more.