Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm sitting here watching the sunset, thinking how beautiful it is
and how lucky I am to be able to see it. Yesterday there were two
bald eagles flying by my window, like a present. I like noticing
those moments of everyday beauty. I make a point to try and show up
for my life.
When I meet you, it would be nice if there were a spark, maybe
humor or attraction or just curiosity and openness showing up in
our eyes. Of course, I'll likely feel both excited and nervous,
what with how we human beings are wired.
There's more. Maybe you're interested in finding out. . .
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working as a counselor at a college. Learning new things. Sitting
zazen. Cantoring Taizè. Staying in touch with people I love. Making
space for romance and intimacy.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Helping people when they feel anxious and overwhelmed. Helping them
find a way to succeed in their lives based on their own goals.
Living passionately and playfully. Making commitments and keeping
them (including "yes" and "no"). Standing by friends even in hard
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
To Kill A Mockingbird. Pema Chodron. Thich Nhat Hahn. All kinds of
music. Food that tastes like sunshine and food that takes me all
over the world.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Kindness. How to live kindly. Hopefully more time living it than
thinking about it.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
A typical Friday night? Driving to Portland sometimes. Hanging out
with friends sometimes. Reading. Catching up on chores.
Listening/singing/dancing to music.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm a fairly private person, but love the intimacy of knowing and
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You want to create loving intimacy that brings out the best in
everything it touches. Or you like tea, music or walks in fresh
air. Or laughing.
Who are you looking for?
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