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29 Portland, OR Man


I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 21–36
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Today – 2:13pm
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Trying to quit
Buddhism, and laughing about it
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Dropped out of university
Rather not say
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), German (Okay), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
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To clarify: I am not gay, or bi, I am not exactly your traditional cis-male either, but I've had it pounded into my head that I can't decide against that designation. Needless to say I want awesome friends in all genders and orientations, I don't care... but as far as sexual expression goes, I prefer to share that with female bodied people. I am actively trying to use genderless terms, but old habits die hard, give me a little tiny slack, I've been making lots of self-improvement as of late.
ardent, philosophical, honest, stubborn, sincere, irreverant, starry-eyed, kind, sisyphean, radical, compulsive, perceptive, loud, quiet, sexual, sado-masochistic, creative, equalitarian, anarcho-syndicalist, sharp-tongued, spiritual, morally unconventional, but morally sound, artistic, possibly autistic, cerebral, sardonic, poetic, tattooed.
If you dislike cats we cannot possibly get along.
What I’m doing with my life
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working full time as a caregiver and advocate, Going back to school in fall for my CNA; have an interest in phlebotamy, and blood/blood types in general. Art. Music. DC Universe Online.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
tearing down illusions. Doing good deeds.
The first things people usually notice about me
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tattoos. septum piercing. My shirt. My bluntness. My kindness.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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What I am into tends to change, so here is just a brief overview:
AUTHORS: Huxley, Palahniuk, Kerouac, Bradbury, Sagan, Robbins, Foster Wallace, Plath, Ginsberg, Butler, Dickinson, Orwell, Bulgakov, Asimov. (Also comic books... Johnny the Homicidal Maniac, Suicide Squad, Green Lantern, Preacher, Vendetta, Batman, Spiderman, Ghost Rider, Punisher, Avengers, X-Men, and so on... )
TV: I refuse to have cable, I think that television with advertisements and cable news is largely responsible for the decline of common sense and basic consideration. When I do watch shows, I enjoy stuff like Star Trek, X Files, or Arrow, BBC's Robin Hood, Flash, House, Kids in the Hall, and some others. Really I am just a giant kid who genuinely loves cartoons..
MOVIES: I love silent films, but aside from those here is my top 3... 3. Blade Runner 2.Idiocracy 1. Fight Club
MUSIC: my music taste is expansive, right now I am into Abbe Mae, Kendrick Lamar, Mischief Brew, RVIVR, Jessica Hernandez and the Deltas, Aesop Rock, Saul Williams, Leadbelly, Coltrane, Bobby Womack. (To name a few)
I love food, pescatarian burrito lover, please wrap almost anything in a tortilla.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Without a universal law there is no gravity, without gravity, there is no atmosphere, without an atmosphere there is no chance at life, and with no chance at life: I don't exist.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Cats, goats, the cosmos, bondage, the period of brain activity after the heart stops, star trek, travel, my future garden, everything else, you know, existence, the world at large. Hella Deep, right?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
But in theory...

I am doing any number of things, Not much for typical...
I like to go to awesome shows, punk rock shows being a big one! I like to have some beers or some scotch. I like to watch netflix and make out. . I like to ride the max aimlessly on a day pass with no destination in mind.... And other stuff...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm pretty shameless, I admit to most anything. Like, I might be pooping while I look at your OKCupid profile.
You should message me if
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You're not vapid or full of expectations. If you want to cuddle, if you play music, or love star trek, if you are into intellectual pursuits. If you wish to help people, and/or help people with me. If you understand the importance of kindness. if insomnia-driven nights are common for you, and you want some good conversation.