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28 M Portland, OR

My Details

Last Online
Aug 18
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Buddhism, and laughing about it
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Dropped out of university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), German (Okay), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
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My name is Liam-- INFP (weirdo)
I work as a caregiver and advocate with an amazing friend who has Spinal-Muscular Atrophy. I spend a lot of time with him, giving care, and fighting a continuous uphill battle with the state of oregon that is quite unnecessary to get him the quality of life he deserves.

I am on here as a means of availability, although OKCupid and I have a love hate relationship.. I am consistently offput, though I have met some wonderful people, here.

I most likely will not message you, even if I like you, unfortunately, many of my gender will have already flooded your inbox with terrible comments, full of objectification, and disrespect, and I don't wish to be one of those men, messaging you and blending in with that. I will probably rate you highly, so if you like me, you can find out if it's mutual through rating.

I am confident enough to say 'hello' in public if I am attracted, but I am very much dismayed by how some of my male peers act toward women, thus, many times I decide not to approach. I don't want to blend into any of that.

I am not vane, and physical isn't so important to me as mental attraction, though if you are a bigger girl, I can't pursue anything sexual. I am not shaming your body type, either, I am thin, and it doesn't feel right for me, I have tried... and I don't have an unfair standard, either, when I say big, I mean obese.

Statistically speaking you won't read this far, you will have perused my photos, maybe viewed some questions, but you will have mostly judged me from intrinsic physical attraction. If this is how you use OKCupid, if you are a vane person, save us both the time and let's not talk. I am not denying that physical attraction is important, but it is hardly everything, beauty fades, honest, intellectual souls are what I look for.

Really tired of everyone's fixation on gender identity, I refuse to be contained to it, I am not my body, and if you identify as the vessel you see in the mirror, you might be missing out on a lot of depth. I am a queer ally, and many of my close friends, and my brother are transgender, so it's not an attack on the identity itself, it is, however a criticism on the front of rejecting communication based on particular gender identity. It IS discrimination.

I am an irreverent, yet sincere and passionate man.
I have never been so great at describing myself, I suppose it's because I am not that self-involved, and I feel like one could post whatever they want into these little boxes.

I would much prefer a long conversation where that information is traded equally.

I am a really easy guy to be friends with and I respect boundaries, I am really initially only looking to meet new friends; after that come what may, but I carry no expectations.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am a New Yorker who was born in New Hampshire, and lived all through New England, I do have a love affair with Boston. I have been in PDX since july 2012, and am absolutely loving it. I am an artist, a writer, a musician, I am a Body Piercer, caregiver, and line cook... sort of a jack of all trades. I am sort of just letting life take me where it will. Cliche "Abstract artist" who finds himself influenced by Basquiat, and DaDa, a punk musician who has played in a few bands and had some rough spots in life. I'm a traveler by nature, and wish to see as much as possible before I die... I have one hell of a story, and keep adding to it.
I am pursuing my own life first, so:
To start, I don't want to dive into anything serious-- I want to get to know you, I want to have fun, I'd love to cuddle, and if I'm attracted, and you are too; maybe get sexual. I am not against the idea of building a bond, or making a commitment. I am also open to polyamorous relationships... But let's not get ahead of ourselves.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Hmm... I'm really good at writing, singing, telling the truth when everyone else is afraid to, thinking, breathing, being myself, being a loyal friend, standing up for myself and other people who don't have the capacity.

I am from New York, and can make better Italian food than most west coasters; there, I said it.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My septum piercing, my tattoos... that's normally the first thing people notice, after that it's my "piercing blue eyes"... Then a lot of compliments on my intellect.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Huxley, Palahniuk, Frank Herbert, Tolkien, Kerouac, Ginsberg, Plath, Saul Williams, Poe, Bradbury, King
NONFICTIONNN-- SAGAN SAGAN SAGAN -- lol... I like to read Encyclopedias.
Comic Books, I still have an attachment to Johnny the Homicidal Maniac... That comic opened me to Vasquez before Zim, but I am not above watching some Invader Zim, along with Aeon Flux, Ah! Real Monsters, Foster's Home For Imaginary Friends... shit.. I will watch almost every cartoon aside from a condemned list that includes the Garfield cartoons and CatDog. Walking Dead, Breaking Bad, Sons of Anarchy, 30 Rock, Arrested Development, I really like Documentaries, too.. Cosmos. Scrubs, Star Trek, ROBOT CHICKENNN.. ahem.. trying to think of things that technically aren't cartoons... SNL, sometimes, unless the host is annoying and in everything.
Movies, well.. Fight Club is obvious, but entirely true. I like silent films, particularly the old Jekyll and Hyde... Nosferatu was also pretty great, and the first Hunchback of Notre Dame. I like Cecil B. Demented, and The Crow. lol... I have a wide array of movie tastes, but can only endure one at a time, normally... unless we're doing the original trilogy star wars...
Black Flag, Dead Kennedys, Rasputina, Beats Antique, Mudhoney, Against Me, Andrew Jackson Jihad, Listener, Aesop Rock, Lower Class Brats, The Refused, Bikini Kill, Bratmobile, Seven Year Bitch, Simon and Garfunkel, Cat Stevens, Donovan, Jimi Hendrix, Nirvana, Cock Sparrer, DRI, Ghost Mice, Mischief Brew, Bad Brains, Tchaikowsky, Schubert, Scott Joplin, The Ink Spots, Billie Holiday, Murder By Death, Leftover Crack, CKY, BusDriver, Saul Williams, Atmosphere, Anal Cunt, GWAR, Aphex Twin, Prefuse 73.. and many more!
and I like food, in general, I am a decent cook, and I like doing it... if it tastes good, I dig it... Recently, though i have started on a more spiritual path, i have started my path to be enlightened, thus, if i buy or forge food for myself, it wont be meat. I am not an elitist, not going to make an issue of your diet or anything, i'm just doing what's right for my mind and soul.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Everything that I can... The period of brain activity after death, the stars, what planet I am from, my meaning, the consciousness of my own sentience and what it entails. Dimensions, Politics in this one, War, Peace, Love, Hate, Free Will, and Freedom. I think about poetry.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I am doing any number of things, Not much for typical...
I like to go to awesome shows, punk rock shows being a big one! I like to have some beers or some scotch. I like to watch netflix and make out. I like to have long winded discussions with strangers on burnside about racial tensions in modern american society, and the hidden implications of the elite that end in us shaking hands, exchanging names and calling eachother 'brother'. I like to ride the max aimlessly on a day pass with no destination in mind.... And other stuff...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm pretty shameless, I admit to most anything.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 21–36
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
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You want to contact me, duh...
or if you are looking for a cuddle buddy,
...if you're bored, and you are into intellectual, and/or comedic banter.
... If you have green eyes...
If you appreciate honesty...
If you are pursuant of Mahayana Buddhism,
you love Star Trek..
Any of these things..