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48 M Orinda, CA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 1:37pm
6′ 4″ (1.93m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Other, but not too serious about it
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Has dogs
English (Fluently), German (Okay)

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My self-summary
I am exploring what is meaningful to me in relationships around friendship, intimacy and sexuality. I am serving certain people in the world through my gifts of teaching for enabling personal growth and innovative change. I am open to meeting that special someone and meeting you to see what magic and mystery unfolds with us.

I am playing the games of life differently than I have played them before. I honor a life with essential structure, boundaries and commitment and I also am following what is true for me instead of what the social norms would have me agree to.

Our world is changing more than ever before and I am here to help myself and others navigate through the waves of change. Many of the older games played in the arenas of religion, relationship, vocation and lifestyle have served their time well and those that embrace the changes now will enjoy the journey more.
What I’m doing with my life
I am moving from an established entrepreneurial business life in the drug industry into an entrepreneurial experience in life teaching and lifestyle innovation. I am actively writing books on relationships with practical courses and offerings to help people make life changing choices in the essential games they play in life.
I’m really good at
I am gifted in listening and learning and understanding people as well as noticing the patterns of change that are taking place in our world. As a great student of life I am a great teacher of life and an eloquent speaker. I distill things into their essential truth as a way to teach myself and others what is possible in these emerging times.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Movies: Lots of Favorites, Gladiator, Thank You for Smoking, Men of Honor, The Lives of Others, Adjustment Bureau, Sliding Doors, In Time, Inception, Take the Lead, Star Dust, Bottle Shock, Titanic, Pirates of the Caribbean, Religulous, The Lottery at Birth, Dr. Zhivago … so many ... always up for a new movie that offers insight and inspiration and possible lifestyle innovation.
Shows: Wicked, Hair, Rent, Les Miserables, Zumanity, Ka, La Reve, Mamma Mia, Lion King, Phantom of the Opera
Music: Pop (80s to current) for Dancing ... and then Inspirational Music and Folk Rock - love to Sing to what I listen too
Books: 4 Hour Work Week, War of Art, Four Agreements, Count Your Blessings, Mating in Captivity
Food: Italian, Thai, Indian, Greek, Great Salads, Healthy and Vital
The six things I could never do without
My Voice and Creative Expression
Aliveness, Fullness, Passion and Humorous Wisdom
Great friends for sharing life and my Men’s Team
The many people in the world that I can give to and help and who can help me in return
Insights, Inspirations and Implementing Innovations
Being healthy and fit through fun sports activities
Intimacy and Great Sex
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The themes and inquiries that come to me daily that are connected to relationship, our humanity and divinity, our greatness and meaning in our sacred life
On a typical Friday night I am
Relaxing and doing something rejuvenating on my own or with friends or with you. I am easier going on Friday night after a full week, so that I am rested and have extra energy to enjoy all of Saturday and into Sunday.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I change my clothes outside of my car in parking lots when I need to get ready for the next thing and I am short on time.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 33–44
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You want to go out on a date and have a fun and engaging time. I think it is great when women send me messages, ... as it is fun way to play the game.