At the moment I have a full hand when it comes to relationships, but I am always open to new friends. Alright first and foremost, I am married, we have a open Poly relationship. I am not looking for one night stands or quick flings. I would like to find a 'secondary' type of relationship, a boyfriend. I want someone to have fun with, chat, hang out, do fun things together. I want to be able to connect with you and feel at least a deep friendship with whomever I choose to come into my life. I do not have a problem with you having other relationships so long as there is honesty among all involved. So I suppose from here I should let you know about me.

So me, hmm, this is always the tricky part. I have an honest, artsy, dedicated personality. I work hard for what I have and what I want. I work as a Dog Groomer, but will one day work for myself creating with my art.

During my free time I tend to spend time hanging with my puppy and 2 kitties. Also I enjoy reading Fantasy/magical fiction. I will spend hours non stop watching Anime.

Yes I believe in the unbelievable side of life, just because we can't always see it doesn't mean it isn't there.

There is good in everyone I believe that, I know most will think this makes me a fool but to me it means I always see light where others only see darkness. The world will always have hope in my eyes, what do you see with yours?

Finding smiles anyway I can. :-)

Pissing people off.

My husband says my boobs, sigh.....men.

If it has magic or Dragons I'm there! Also Vampire and Werewolf books from authors such as Charlain Harris, Keri Arthur and Patricia Briggs. Currently slowly progressing through the Dresden Files. Love that it is set in Chicago.
Movies and Shows. Anime is my guilty pleasure. It makes me smile. My husband and I watch several of the DC and Marvel based animated series together as well. Horror films as in paranormal and cheesy scifi spoof movies are one of my favorite ways to spend a quiet weekend, the worse the movie the harder I laugh, it's all good. I love classic disaster flicks, I can spend hours watching these films including Towering Inferno, Poseidon Adventure, Earthquake, etc.... I will watch the musical movies from the 40-50's if given the chance as well Fred Astaire, Ginger Rogers, Betty Grable, Deanna Durbin, and the list goes on...
My musical taste is eclectic ranging from classic rock to tango & Salsa dance with a splattering of Heavy metal & pop with the all time classic of Sinatra's crooning and the jump and jive of the big band for flavor.
All time favorite food is Chocolate, there is no life without Chocolate don't even try to take it out of my cold dead hand I will Will my self back to life to keep it with me.

my animals, music, chocolate, a good book, friends & family, and a sword whether on the wall or in my hands. :)

where my life is taking me and all its crazy twists

Sleeping my work week isn't over yet!

I do want a family and home, it may not end up following the 'normal' lines people are use to, but a happy home and family full of love and respect. I am involved in 2 polyamorous relationships, with 2 wonderful men. Real_Vladinator(husband), reliablend3(BF) and Phil62702(LDBF)

Hey guys here's a hint. Don't lead off with asking my favorite sexual position. Take a chance, get to know me as a person, trust me it will make things even better when they happen that way.