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26 Brussels, Belgium Woman


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 20–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Apr 19
4′ 11″ (1.51m)
Body type
Full figured
Strictly vegetarian
Agnosticism, and somewhat serious about it
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Might want kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), German (Fluently), Dutch (Fluently), French (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I don't like to summarize, as I'm more of a detail person.

Things I like: New Wave music, autumn, drinking Coke Zero after waking up, thinking about Morrissey, smiling people, sitting on trains, useless crafts projects, living together with my housemates, depressing books, sewing, cats (of course), people with stories.

Things I don't like: arrogance, summer, Brussels Sprouts, cruelty towards people or animals, a lot of phobias (homophobia, fatphobia, xenophobia, etc.), society, rules made up by people who don't know a thing about life, white walls, silence, pop music.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm probably wasting it whilst trying to make a difference, but nevermind :)!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
- Being clumsy
- Cooking, at times
- Literary theory and stuff like that
- Languages
- Dealing with crazy customers
- Wasting time :)
The first things people usually notice about me
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Colours, hair, smallness :)
In the end I don't know, because I'm not "people" and "people" often do not tell the truth about what they first notice about someone. I guess...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Mostly German and Swiss literature (Schwarzenbach,
Ingeborg Bachmann, Kafka, Grass)
Virginia Woolf, Oscar Wilde, E.A. Poe, Paul Auster,
Murakami, Brett Easton Ellis, Shani Mootoo ("Cereus
Blooms at Night"), etc. etc.
Movies: Dead Poets Society, Gegen die Wand, der Himmel über Berlin, Mulholland Drive, Bin Jip, One flew over the cuckoo's Nest, Donnie Darko, Elephant, Soul Kitchen, Ben X, J'ai tué ma mère, Dogtooth, Hapiness, etc.
Shows: Anything involving Stephen Fry ;)
Music: The Smiths, Patti Smith, Nick Cave, Tom Waits, Lou Reed, Moby, Pink Floyd, The Raveonettes, Blonde Redhead, Sonic Youth, Crystal Castles, Devendra Banhardt, CocoRosie, The Beatles, Dead can Dance, Explosions in the Sky, The Velvet Underground, The Pixies, Crystal Castles, John Maus, Molly Nilsson, etc.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
- Friends
- Morrissey (not a thing though)
- cheese
- Coke Zero hehe
- good music
- goodwill
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how weird it is when you think, it's like speaking to yourself. And where is the place of language in all this? And how can we control our thoughts? And... ahhhhh for f*cks sake, stop it!!!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At work, sleeping to be ready for an early Saturday shift, having drinks with friends, me-time,...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Private and admitting doesn't go well together.
You should message me if
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you feel like...
and if you are willing to think outside the box