I live and work in downtown Seattle, as a software developer. I
love my job! I solve puzzles and build things all day, and in going
on ten years I haven't tired of it yet.
<3 I am now married to the marvelous miss Bydlo85
! <3 She is my partner, and my
identical puzzle piece. Fun fact: we met on OKCupid originally,
which implies to me that it IS possible to find a magical rainbow
of awesome & successful relationships on here.
We are polyamorous / in an open relationship, which is now an open
marriage, I guess? :) Interestingly, we have been open since we
started dating, so 2+ years now. I feel like we're definitely
getting the hang of this.
I have been feeling strongly that the most important thing I am
working on recently is self expression. I tend to be easygoing and
agreeable, and so my challenge is prioritizing the ways to spend my
time that really express what I want, instead of just going with
the flow, schedule-wise.
That means that I have maybe a little less room in my life for Big
Important Relationships (I feel darn good about the ones I have),
and that I'm really looking for satisfying connections in some of
life's many subdomains.
(Note however that those more 'limited' connections are, however,
perfect places for a Big Important Relationship to develop, and if
that happens, great!)
So! That having been said, I am super excited to make new friends
in these areas and more:
* Music Friends
* Running Friends
* Rock Climbing Friends
* Bike Riding Friends
* Movie watching Friends
* Sexy Friends ^_^