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55 F Port Clinton, OH

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 44–57
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 6:45am
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Mostly other
Christianity, and somewhat serious about it
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from two-year college
Sales / Marketing
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Has dogs

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My self-summary
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I'm happy with myself & who I am, just missing the special someone to share life with! :) I love the simple things in life! Have appreciation for people of high integrity, morals & values on the things that matter in life~ I'm not stuffy by any means & love love love to joke around & have fun, but the guy I spend my life with may possibly have higher standards than the average when it comes to being honest & REAL! So many men spend so much time & energy selling themselves on an illusion of who they are & what they are capable of love wise. Please be available & not in love with an ex! wow! Been there & it's not fun. It takes real character to be who you say you are... It takes integrity to do what you say you will do... It takes courage to do what is right... When I look in the mirror, I am glad to be me! We all have our own things we have made mistakes on in life, hasty decisions that have led us down wrong paths, but hopefully we have learned from our mistakes & guess I am looking for what I deserve at this point in my life~ changing my thinking from settling to putting my time into a man of substance...LOL sounds heavy & I am so not... but come on guys~ I want REAL!!!
I love guitars, music, outdoors & would love someone that has the same love of the water & sunshine! Also have loved fishing, though haven't done much of it lately. Get me on the water & I'm in heaven! :)
On the issue of sex, it is very important to me but I feel it belongs in a relationship & if that's what you are looking for on-line, please move on. I'm not into casual sex, sorry. But if we are in a relationship~ it better be important to you, intimacy & all.. looking for the close one on one, just she & I.... :)
What I’m doing with my life
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starting over :) rebuilding my life. There have been many changes in the past couple years & I'm fully in those rebuilding stages. I am in the process of working one small business I've had for quite some time & starting another... truly love self employment~ & learning!
I love IMPROVEMENTS of any kind, working on myself, relationships, & the home I live in :)
Just joined the YMCA & Herbalife & I've set some big goals that I'm working hard on, getting fit & healthier is important to me. Even been trying the boot camps of fitness!! I love to eat healthy food~.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
creativity, love being surrounded with beauty. Atmosphere is important to me, it can bring me joy or make me uncomfortable.
I'm a mom of 2 grown boys & 2 new grandsons I love to hang with. Family & friends are important to me. Work ethics, & I say what I mean & mean what I say. Hard to find a guy that is like me here. Commitment is not taken lightly & appreciate the same when in a committed relationship. Being able to trust is a must.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I always hear it's my eyes & my smile. Piercing Baby blues :) & they comment on how happy I am...always laughing...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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food~ Lobster, seafood, perch, Italian including a good pizza. I love green healthy salads too...
Shows~ not into tv much but I love movies.
Music~ hooked on country. Loving Eric Church, Kid Rock, Keith Urban, Zac Brown, Tim McGraw, Garth, & the 70's like Bob Seger, Eagles, also love alternative...prefer new music. Most recently I am hooked on Kenny Chesney's new cd- "Welcome to the Fishbowl" & I love "El Ceritto Place" & "You & Tequila" both are with Grace Potter- their voices together give me chills ;) Would love to see him again in concert-he wasn't one I cared to see...but caught him because I wanted to see Zac Brown. I LOVE CONCERTS!!! Seen many of the ones mentioned above ;)
Books~ self help! lol psychology, real life stuff :) Magazines with organization ideas & home interior decorating, loving the beach look!
Movies~ "The Notebook", "Catch & Release", romantic comedies are my favorite but love the "Die Hard" types too.."Savages"... will think on that! :)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Love in my life~ a good companion would be amazing!
God for the hope in my life~
a home~
home life~
freedom & PEACE in my life~
(but also would find it hard to live without a body of water nearby, fresh outdoor air, a camera & a cell phone...LOL)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
my future =) & who I am going to be having in my life, I would love to be in a healthy relationship again :)
btw... I have one year of college completed in architectural engineering, I did not complete...but couldn't put that in there properly. haha Education is not as important to me as using the brain God gave us & acting responsibly (atleast on the essentials of living right) I am also self employed. Have been all but the first 7 yrs. of banking life out of high school. It's important to me that I have TIME in my life to do the things I want to do that make me me it's TIME FREEDOM more than $$, although I do love the finer things in life & have worked hard, proud of what I accomplished, but am definitely starting over. Still have my peace of mind & freedom to choose~ for which I am grateful for new beginnings! :)
oops also I have one dog, not dogs, one very big dog... a bullmastiff :) Love this breed immensely! Wish I could raise them~ I've thought about that too! lol
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
hanging on a deck on the water~ usually out with one friend with many approaching us... friendly types of people just saying hey & how are you? That's summer in Port Clinton, winter~ home watching movies snuggled with my someone special :)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm pretty spiritual, less religious, although raised Catholic I will attend non-denomination churches for the guitar music! LOL
I have nothing to hide & am open to discuss any subject with a person I respect :)
My life isn't a secret~ I'm an open book with all my cards on the table, I don't like to waste anyone's time & hope they wouldn't waste mine if they know what I am looking for & it isn't compatible.
You should message me if
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If you can post your pics on here & have several including close up so I can see your eyes & smile & You DO NOT ask for my email address! You are honest, sincere about wanting a good friend that might possibly lead to more... & you don't need to drink daily or drink to have fun :) Love the outdoors, nature, big dogs, & family is important to you. I would like someone that shares the love of the outdoors because on a beautiful day like today I like to be outside enjoying the sunshine! Looking for someone compatible or if you are really cute & just want to hang & have good conversation...that's ok too! Let's laugh together! :)