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LightHandsNYC

43 M New York, NY

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 10:48pm
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Other
Sign
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Medicine
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
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I am an honest, open minded, intelligent individual with a good sense of humor. I am a spiritual person. But don't misunderstand....I am not religious. I am always on the path to grow and discover new things about life and people. I am also a healer. It is a very deep calling and each day I strive to help bring a little more light into people's lives. I am also a very creative individual with a love for art and some writing on the side. It is more natural for me to talk and express myself on a deep level. I've gotten better with casual conversation but my truest nature is quite intense. So I hope you like intense. But in a good aka stable way. ;-) I am also a big sensualist. Not just sexually but striving to use that with all my senses.

I am a bisexual polyamorous man. I practice responsible non-monogamy, but I always make the person I'm with feel like they are the only person in the room. My polyamory is based on bringing more love into my life, not just more sex, but it helps. ;-)

I am funny, open-minded, and spiritual
What I’m doing with my life
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I am a certified energy healer with my own private practice in Manhattan. I am a certified Vortex Energy Healer® I am also a certified Reiki Master. My practice is doing quite well with many satisfied clients.

I have a B.A. in Arts and Illustration from the School of Visual Arts. Though my healing practice comes first I do my best to keep my artwork in my life. My favorite mediums are acrylic, oil, pastel, gouache, and colored pencil.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm a very good healer. One of the attributes I have that come with this job is being able to discern and articulate the intricacies of the human heart and soul, both in it's pain and it's joy. I have a very strong creative mind and I have a very strong intuition which I use both to guide my intellect. I am a very good listener and communicator.

I am also a very good artist. I love to do art that is very expressive, spiritual, or surreal. I love lots of colors with deep think brush strokes and a multitude of blending.

I did say I have a good sense of humor but my creative talent for sarcasm is unsurpassed. :-) This is due in part from an British father with a very dry wit.

As I said before, I am huge sensualist. In this area I use all my senses and all parts of my body, especially my hands. :-)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I guess they notice that I'm my eyes which are brown. Some people say they've seen it turn from brown to green. Cool :-) A lot of people say they like my face. Certainly can't complain about that
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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My favorite books are "Journey Into Nature" and "Journey Into Oneness" by Michael Roads. "Conversations With God" by Neale Walsch. "Hands of Healing" By Barbara Brennon. I'm a big fan of the Gunslinger Series by Stephen King. I love a huge array of both fiction and spiritual books.

I am a HUGE movie junkie. I am always watching movies from Hollywood to obscure independent.

Top 5 Favorite Movies:
1 - Fantastic Planet
2 - Persepholis
3 - Yellow Submarine
4 - I Heart Huckabees
5 - Resurrection

Music I like.... I like some modern, alternative, electronica, some folk, new age. I'm a big Beatles Fan (later work) Angel Tears, Iron & Wine, Radiohead, William Ackerman, Ani Difranco, Lamb....more will come to me......

Food.... I love cheese! Especially cheddar cheese. Italian food, Chinese food..... I like food that is hearty, chunky and stewey. :-) Big fan of chunky salads.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1.) My journal
2.) My art supplies
3.) My writing pens
4.) My bed comforter
5.) My TV
6.) My rewarding healing practice
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
...what to do to bring more peace and harmony in my life. I think about how I may advance my career both spiritually and financially. Trying not to sweat the small stuff. Getting better at it I think.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I'm usually at home watching TV or on the computer. Things don't usually get jumping until Saturday or sunday. Then I will usually hang out with friends, have some good old fun, or I usually see a movie.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I sometimes talk to myself which I enjoy because the person who's listening never interrupts. ;-)
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi guys
  • Ages 28–50
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
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Your intuition resonates positively and connects with my profile.

If you wish to email or IM please know that being skilled in intelligent conversation is mandatory.

NO CLOSETED MEN. If you are interested in me you must be very out and very loving it.

I am not looking for platonic friendships on OKC at this time. My life is quite full and rich with friends. I am only looking for great connection, great attraction, great chemistry, and great romantic intimacy.

If you don't have a profile pic don't bother contacting me.