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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 25-37
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends

My details

Last online
Nov 9
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
6' 0" (1.83m)
Body Type
Other and laughing about it
Dropped out of Post grad
Doesn’t have kids and doesn’t want them
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.

***********UPDATED 6/3/15***********************

I am a lighting designer, an explorer, a laugher, and a Sister of Perpetual Indulgence

I am looking to go outside, have fun with friends, make great memories, create loyal bonds (the type where i can call on you to help me bury a body), and someday ideally I would be looking to find someone else to join in on life's journey.

I am all about supporting, exploring, and growing.

I strongly believe in self discovery and that every day has a new surprise in it. I love problem solving, and I am really open to new ideas, very intuitive and empathetic.

Feel free to ask me questions, I find that the best way to start! And getting to know you through playful inquisitiveness can be really attractive/sexy

Also points if you can make the below happen
HOW TO ASK SOMEONE OUT ON A DATE an illustrated guide by qwantz

I am tall, thin, and I can think, hopefully also rather sane. But you can be the judge of that.

I am fiercely dedicated to helping my local and global community... I am a nun in a perpetual order... (if you get the reference and haven't run away yet we will probably click.)

My tendency is to fall for someone who is taller than me.
and i spend about 82% of my time on the bottom bunk
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I own my company... I am a theatrical Lighting Designer... Ask me about it, i think its really cool! It sure beats a cubical, not that there is anything wrong with that. I get to work with color, and mood, and art, and life! I am fighting back to change the world in my own personal way, eating as organic as possible and trying to vote the right way.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
listening to situations and factoring a good response to them, abstract art, plot lines, shopping, patching clothes, altering designs, baking, massages, music.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My eyes, or my unending supply of happiness which is contagious, also my hair which is never the same (ever)

Right now its lavender blond
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: The Picture Of Dorian Gray, De Profundis, .

Movies: The Devil Wears Prada, .

TV Shows: Community, Smash, Greys anatomy, Bob's Burgers, Family Guy, Absolutely Fabulous, Dexter, Weeds, Fraggle Rock, Glee.

prinze george
ANY TECHNO, Meditation,
Snow Patrol
Stoneface Terminal
Barenaked Ladies
The temper Trap

I do not own a T. V. but that does not mean that i am not adverse to one being around. I'll watch the MET opera's at the movies, For foods I am known to enjoy french, sushi, pizza, duck, fried turkey, and my own cooking.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.


my bed



I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.


I think about, lighting design, sex, when i am in relationship i like think about that person but not obsessively of course (that would just be awkward)...

I also spend a lot of time thinking about how to bring my art to the world, and how to touch people...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
at the club,
cooking at home,
at the oasis getting my hot tub on and a rubdown (thats an inmann reference to all you Cambridge folks...

if its summer ill be out late at night frolic-ing
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am afraid of spiders and falling on stairs (chipping my front teeth)...

I also have a pension for nudity, but at the moment can balance that with the American lifestyle
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're easy going and want to have an awkward yet charmingly
memorable and pleasant first friend/date hang out experience. If you
believe in living by your own rules You're low drama and high
energy You just want to have fun and live life