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Lightwriter73

41 M Norwich, CT

I’m looking for

  • Straight girls only
  • Ages 33–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 4:33pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Other
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity
Sign
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I grew up in Hebron and Bolton, with 59 people in my graduating class. I've traveled to 25 countries and 4 continents documenting topics as diverse as horseback riding in Israel to children receiving medical care in Cambodia. I'm lucky to be able to use my degree (to a certain extent) to serve. I'm creative, curious and love to learn. I enjoy interviewing and meeting people from all walks of life.

I think family is important and I have a close relationship with mine. My parents were married for 43 years, which seems rare nowadays.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Professional: ... I work in public relations.

I already have a Bachelor's, but I'm interested in teaching. I've tutored many people and I'm interested in improving literacy in eastern CT.

I've been volunteering my time for equine-assisted therapy for children and adults.

I drive to Bolton often to see close friends. I also like mini-road trips to Bigelow Hollow, Cape Cod or Brattleboro, Vermont. I miss Maine and would like to visit there soon. I lived in western Maine for 4 years.

Mentoring others...

One of my biggest passions is horses. I've admired horses all my life and finally bought Gold Rush, a Morgan, two years ago. I'm looking forward to eventually owning a barn. I'd love to embark on a week long ride with camping each night.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Compassion. Empathy. I'm a good listener and mentor. I'm a leader at work and I've worked with a lot of different people while serving in the Navy. I tend to be someone people go to for advice or when they seek insight.

Keeping people happy with my grin. Open-mindedness. Random thoughts and acts of kindness...optimism...

Being curious and open-minded to trying new things. I recently went to Whole Foods with a friend and a whole new world awaits! Speaking of cooking, I enjoy preparing Indian, Thai and Burmese curry dishes.

"It's always the quiet ones."

Managing money.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Good listener, my green eyes and provocative smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
One of the most interesting books I've read recently was "The Hot Shoe Diaries" by Joe McNally, who I've seen in person in San Diego twice for seminars. It's about photography. I work in public relations and photography, so inspiration and knowledge help. :-)

Movies: A River Runs through It, Good Will Hunting, Contact, Buck, Like Water for Chocolate, The Black Stallion, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Mulholland Drive, Uncle Buck, Trains, Planes and Automobiles.

Music: Edward Sharpe and the Magnetic Zeroes, Of Monsters and Men, Arcade Fire, Eddie Vedder/Pearl Jam, Moby, U2, Billy Joel, The Slackers, Beirut, Billy Currington, Dwight Yoakam, Miles Davis, Hans Zimmer, Ella Fitzgerald.

Food: I love experimenting in the kitchen: Thai, Indian and Italian come to mind, but I also like making breakfast for supper some nights; there's something cozy about it...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
good health
friends and family
love
good reading
faith/inner peace
lists of six things
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The Myers-Briggs test and how different personalities interact.

How long will it take before other countries decide human lives are not worth taking over differences in religion?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
It really depends on which Friday.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
The sounds of tie fighters in Star Wars were a combination of elephant calls and car tires on wet pavement mixed together.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You actually want to devote time to a relationship and are emotionally available. You know what you want in life.

You don't worship television.

For me, chemistry is a combination of attraction and knowing we can just be ourselves around someone special. We can talk about almost anything around one another.