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31 Los Angeles, CA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men who like women
  • Ages 24–43
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 1:48pm
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Strictly vegetarian
Other, and laughing about it
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Italian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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If a woman dating a straight couple is a unicorn, what's the word for a woman having a relationship with two men at the same time? Because I'm whatever mythical creature that is in search of the couple of amazing men who think there's no such thing as a woman who would want to date you BOTH. But I do exist, boys. I'm here. Everything is going to be amazing.

I am also into and/or described by these words...

Feminist; Polyamorous/Non-monogamous; GGG; Bicycles; Community; Silly; Kids; Traveling; Nomadic; Vegetarian; Pansexual; Bookphile; Sex-positive; Ally for trans folks, disabled peeps, and people of color; Peaceful conflict resolution; Compersion; Cartwheels; Blanket fort building; Outdoors everything; Green juice; Technophile; Poetry; Space travel.


I like choices. I like to be girly one day and a tom boy the next. I usually wear dresses with combat boots and heels with a vest and jeans. I want chocolate AND vanilla. I want to meditate AND listen to rock and roll. I don't mind crying and I laugh absolutely every day. I have tattoos (3 and counting) and (someday) plan to raise gorgeous little hippie children. It is sort of my mission to seek out situations where people say you can't have your cake and eat it too and open up a fucking cake shop. I am ambitious, and I compulsively study things that I don't understand. I dream about sex in rocket ships.

I'm super interested in the co- words and looking for two nifty fellows to co--- with.

Community, co-creation, collaboration, cohabitation, cooperation, co-pilot, co-captain, co-conspirator, co-actor, co-chair, AND co-adventurer (my new favorite word!
What I’m doing with my life
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I work for a software company, but my official job title is Evangelist. I travel almost full time (as in, I'm on the road more than I'm home), meet incredible people, speak a lot, lead workshops, and write. Basically I have the best job in the whole world and you could pinch me I'm so happy.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Fitting my whole fist in my mouth, having it all, dreaming big, traveling for weeks with just a small back pack, head stands, pushing you REALLY fast on the tire swing.

I'm also great at adapting to almost any situation - in the last year I've slept in world famous mansions, shared hotel rooms with celebrities, and lived in a one room house with my dad and sister.
The first things people usually notice about me
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the awesome new scar I have on the front of my neck. Or the giant half naked tantric goddess on my arm.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love the feel of books. I love the difference between new and old book smell. I love to go to the library and close my eyes and walk down the aisle running my fingers along the spines of every book.

I remember the moment, I was 12, when I realized that I would never be able to read every book ever written. The death of that dream hit me hard. But the impossibility of it hasn't kept me from chasing it nonetheless. I love Milan Kundera, Jane Austen, Gabriel Garcia Marquez, Sandra Cisneros, Erica Jong, Anais Nin, Billy Collins, e.e. cummings, Tom Robbins and everything, everything, everything else. Novels, poetry, sci-fi, fantasy, biographies, business books, non fiction, short essays, etc. I estimate I've read several thousand books in my life.

I have seen very few movies compared to almost everyone else. On the top of the list of movies I am proud to have never seen is Titanic. UPDATE: Even prouder to have missed the Twilight Series.

I grew up in Austin, so while I never remember the names of half the people I hear, I have a love of eclectic and far reaching music styles. Whatever genre, if it's good and I can dance to it, I'm in.

I make killer gluten free coconut pancakes, roasted vegetable enchiladas, stuffed tomatoes, sweet potato hash browns, and homemade lavender almond milk.

I can do this no problem:
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my journal for writing down poems, thoughts, hopes, vivid dreams, to do lists

a good pair of boots for jazzing up dresses, jeans, shorts, and everything else

eyeliner to make me look like I tried to look nice before leaving the house if I have a gig

coconut oil for cooking, for baking, for skin care, and for the amazing smell

this amazing pair of earrings with chainmail and skulls that my baby sister made me to remind me of my family and that I am loved

the stars in a big Texas night sky to remind me how small I am and how great the universe is
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how do the people who write the warning labels on Q-tip boxes warning people that they are not for internal use clean their ears? how will I possibly travel to every place on the planet? when will we have commercial flights to space? how can I meet that awesome famous person and make them my best friend? how does this not sexy thing relate to sex? (it always does somehow). yoga yoga yoga. am I a city or a country mouse? omg that baby is really adorable. I bet *I* can do that too - watch! YES GIRLS CAN TOO DO THAT!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working on a community project or speaking somewhere. It's not that I don't like movies, dancing, and normal date nights, it's just that creating big projects - starting companies and conferences and workshops - is way sexier and more fun 95% of the time.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Big things like moving to a new city with no warning, being naked in front of strangers (literally and metaphorically) and public speaking don't scare me. But I cover my eyes at the scary parts of movies and tv shows. Even the scary parts of cartoons.
You should message me if
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I like people who SMILE. If your pictures don't include costumes, hand stands, stupid faces, and general ridiculousness, we probably will never get along.

I've never been a picket fence and dinner at 7 kind of girl. I want safaris and caravans and backpacking and canoeing. I want beaches, mountains, and space travel if I can arrange it. I love to read and climb and think and collaborate.

I want adventure and joy and peach juice dripping down my chin. I want gorgeous Tuscany sunsets, crumbling old ruins, mango trees ready to be climbed, and donkeys to ride through remote villages.

I want a life without limits and boundaries and rules and pretty much that's how my life is.