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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18-35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Oct 14
6' 2" (1.88m)
Body Type
Agnosticism but it’s not important
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat), German (Somewhat), Hindi (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm Ryan, and I just moved to Oakland. I want to do awesome things with you and your friends.

Things that I've learned, cliche and otherwise:

- Sharing is literally caring.
- If you want other people to love you, you have to love them first. I know, it's not quite fair.
- Understanding politics is crucial but don't get too wrapped up in the game. (Because it's just a game).
- Understanding money is crucial but don't get too wrapped up in the game. (Because it's just a game).
- It's very much worth it to know how to cook, make love, listen, and take care of people.
- A real man is someone who handles his own shit early, so he can help other people with theirs.
- People named Ryan are funny and cute and tall (you even reading this?)
- It's important to know when, and when not to give up on people.
- Family and community are the most important things in life. Whether you are born into one or create one, we are all social and tribal animals. So stop driving people away from yourself like an idiot.
- If you act like you're supposed to be doing something you can usually get away with it.
- Traveling is great and cheap therapy/school/inspiration/healing/entertainment/banana.
- Say yes, otherwise you're boring and I hate you.
- Don't buy drugs at night time.
- To predict what people will do in the future, find out what motivates them right now.
- If you want a nicer butt learn how to squat.
- If you want nicer abs, learn how to cook.
- If you want nicer friends, stop being a jerk.
- No one has ever extended their life by worrying.
- Don't trust a taxi driver with unsolicited advice.
- Don't trust people who don't try to help themselves. Once you see someone trying it's your job as a human to help.
- Anything on CNN and Fox News is bullshit.
- Build a community around you and you'll never need anything else.
- Don't trust people who don't question things.
- Respect other people's struggle.
- If you workout and eat healthy tons of good things will magically happen to you.
- Parties are awesome, especially Mark's.

You should do things with me, I'll tell the jokes and you sing the songs ha cha cha hippity bippity flip flap flabam.

I like you.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work a lot these days, for a big solar energy company. Used to work a lot of crazy random jobs in a lot of crazy random countries ask me about it if you want a mildly interesting story.

I started training Brazilian Jiu Jitsu and Muay Thai recently. If you train I love you already. I like to play guitar/ukelele/drums. I'm alright, nothing special. Just joined a soccer league in Oakland! Looking to start doing yoga! Help me with this please.

I've been all over Asia, Europe, and Central America but my favorites are India, Nepal, Cambodia, Morocco, and funkytown, and Narnia, and space, and your Mom's house.

Now I'm settling myself here in Oakland. back near family, building my future here. Saving up for a house or two to work on dat residual passive income.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
My job
Being lucky
Using my body for things
Convincing other people to laugh
Being tall
(see what I did there?)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm probably laughing and I have ADD and sometimes I don't finish my
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I love music. Iove to play music (guitar and drums mostly but I'm nothing special) love to listen to music, I love to go see shows and live music. Music is like food I love spicy, ethnic, varied, sexy.

Authors I like are Palanuik, Vonnegut, Steinbeck, Clavell, and I used to read a lot of non-fiction, always been interested in history and politics. Also I like looking at maps.

My favorite movies are REALLY dark comedies that laugh at terrible things for example Choke, Grand Budapest Hostel, Happiness, American Psycho, Big Lebowski, Donnie Darko, Lock, Stock, and Two Smoking Barrels, Royal Tennenbaums, and Igby Goes Down.

I live for spicy food. I live for food. Thai, Indian, Pho, Sri Lankan, Burritos, Sushi. at the same time. Now I'm hungry. And I love to cook.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Physical activity
Feeling useful
An ocean and mountains near me
Other people
Intergalactic you and me
Trees (all kinds)
Adventures (all kinds)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I met a monk in India who told me to stop thinking about the future and just be in the moment so I am trying to abide.

I think he's on to something.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Could be anything from friends house or a club, to burning some trees and going to a planetarium. Or a night hike.

I can get down with everything and anything. It's the people you're with that make the difference. Write that down kids.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm sure there are pretty private things hidden in those quesions Ok cupid keeps asking me. I'm much more love driven than these questions indicate though, don't judge me too hard on that "personality" tab.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
I like women who have explored and like what they've seen. Not necessarily the world but at the very least themselves.

And are confident. And sexy. Also be comfortable in new situations because those are some of my favorite situations.

** little update here
Huge ups if you're funny cause I like smiling. Know who you are as a human being and I've always felt you can have any flaw possible, as long as you are self aware and willing to work on it

Most people are interesting to me so if your feeling lucky (or unlucky) pull the trigger. Maybe I'll respond. Or maybe I'll ignore you. Or maybe I'll just mail you a bowl of cold spaghetti.