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LilLofty

35 / F / Straight / Single

New York, New York

Her Details

Last Online
May 17
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 2″ (1.57m).
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism but not too serious about it
Sign
Scorpio and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Has dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
A born and raised city girl, I'm a tomboy at heart. I'm passionate and devoted to my work and I'm a constant seeker of a balanced (and active) lifestyle. I love live music like it's my job (it's not). My actual job, and my other love, is books. I recently left a rather corporate career to start my own company and am enjoying choosing my own adventure.
What I’m doing with my life
Floatin' like a butterfly and stingin like a bee.
I’m really good at
Stocking up for storms.
The first things people usually notice about me
My smile...or, depending on distance, my laugh.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I'm at the moment ending a long spell of abusing "Andrew Bird Radio" on spottily and am searching for new inspiration. Help! I have a somewhat voracious and open-minded musical palate and can easily fall hard for blues, bluegrass, folk, jazz, soul, reggae and world. Love hearing live music in intimate venues - Barbes, Oracle Club, Bar 55, Smalls, Smoke, 68 Jay are some favorites.

I'm especially attracted to genre-bending comic books and I read according to whim, guilt, recommendation and urgency.
The six things I could never do without
My community, music, the ocean, writing, sunshine and bubble baths.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Training my puppy and deciding where I'll go on my next vacation.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I guess you will just have to find out. Some things are still worth waiting for.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 25–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
You are kind and easy going; love music, the ocean and food; think spending a summer evening watching the sunset from the staten island ferry rivals carnegie hall.