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I am a girl that's silly, dark, and mostly sweet

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LilRavyn

31 / f / straight / Single

Alpharetta, Georgia, United States

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Ethnicity White

Height 5' 2" (1.57m).

Looking For New friends, Long-term dating

Smokes Trying to quit

Drinks Rarely

Drugs Never

Religion Other and somewhat serious about it

Sign Libra but it doesn't matter

Education Graduated from college/university

Job Other

Income $30,000-$40,000

Kids Likes children

Pets Likes dogs and Owns cats

Languages English

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I'm weird, yes really, but in a generally entertaining sort of way. I love to read and may the gods help you if you try to interfer while I am doing so. *grins* I love to cook, just need the excuse. I am a Goth, or something similar anyway. I am a witch, my path is my own thing so I try not to let people confuse me with something I am not. I like going out to clubs sometimes. Well select few really, the ones that throb with nice industrial dark type music, where people dance around in corsets, eyeliner and fishnet, etc etc...

I lead a relatively quiet life, I read, cook, hang out with friends, curl up with my cat, watch anime and NCIS and have random bursts of lots of activity..going out to clubs and events, or creative or spiritual pursuits.
I am weird and quiet and a lil dark, but also sweet and fierce and funny.
I am not skinny and never will be, I am not huge and I am working on trimming down, for me, not you.
Those I love, I love absolutely, and those I do not..I simply do not.
I like to talk and laugh and be relaxed, I am a lil messy and scattered but very smart.

What I'm doing with my life

At the moment I am researching schools to go back to graduate school, which is bound to make my life a good deal busier between work and school but I think the end result will be worth it. And, studying for the GRE..again. Damn that five year rule. Hehe

I'm really good at

*grins* Wouldn't you just LOOOVVVEE to know that? *winks*
Well, alright. Let's see, I am good at cooking, napping, reading, acting silly and going on the occasional, very therapeutic, venting session or letting someone else do the same thing when they need it. I make an excellent sounding board.

The first thing(s) people usually notice about me

My red hair with its little stripes in it.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Anita Blake series, Merry Gentry series, Outlander series, Dark Jewel trilogy (currently reading...Sebastian, Who were the Celts? And the Essentials of Philosophy, and probably some fluffy little romance novel for good measure)
Movies....
I like horror movies that involve the supernatural or ones that scare you because of the setting and music and twisting, creepy plot. I am not so much into your run of the mill psycho bot/hacker slasher flick, they are just good for egregious amounts of blood and gore and that is just not all that interesting to watch.
I suppose some of my favorite movies would be Underworld, Matrix, Mirrormask, Howl's Moving Castle, Spirited Away, Samurai X, The Fifth Element, Lord of the Rings, Harry Potter, Kungfu Zombies (its so bad its good), The Crow, Ella Enchanted, From Hell, Dracula, Gothic, Mr, Magorium's Wonder Emporium, Like Water for Chocolate, Chocolat, Phantom of the Opera, Attila, Dear Frankie, Dead Again, The Postman, Everafter, 10th Kingdom, Rurouni Kenshin, Bleach, Inuyasha, Trinity Blood, Blood+, I think that will do for now
Music, like I said above, that good dark industrial stuff, and celtic, and classical and whatever else catches my particular fancy
Cruxshadows, Assemblage 23, Corvus Corax, Godsmack, Muse, Loreena McKennitt, Funker Vogt, She wants Revenge, NIN, Voltaire, VNV Nation

Foods..Sushi, steak, s'getti, asian, italian and southern cuisines, just none of those evil noxious bell peppers-allergic

The six things I could never do without

hmmm...my kitty, my books, my kitchen, my friends/fam, my kenshin (anime) and my imagination. My toys would be here too, but lately I think they may not be as important as I thought they were...

I spend a lot of time thinking about

life, future, magic, choices, people, what I've read, what I've heard, thought, seen, felt
Lately..work, time, boys, what I really want and need in life, how to try and be sweeter without getting my heart stomped all over again and again.

I haven't quite figured out why OKCupid has tagged me with some of the little icons that they have. I am actually very giving, it gets me into trouble sometimes, I try to stretch farther than I can really reach. Though I guess I am pretty dorky sometimes, so that's acceptable. Kinky, yeah, that too.
Politically, more middle of the road than republican. I totally don't get the less socially free thing. I am pretty live and let live, if it makes ya happy and its not hurting anyone by all means, have at.
And, while I have my moments of pessimism, I prefer to be hopeful about things, afterall if you aren't, what would be the point of continuing to try?

On a typical Friday night I am

Sometimes I am out at a club or movie. Others I am just hanging out with friends at my home or their home as the case may be. Many a friday night I am playing recluse and curled up at home reading, cooking, working or sleeping.

The most private thing I'm willing to admit here

umm, I hum when I cook.

You should message me if

any of this interested, amused or potentially annoyed you...
Blessed Be...

ps...about IMs or emails, u is never an acceptable replacement for the word you...It just comes across so much nicer.

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