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44 • Berlin, Germany • Woman
I’m looking for
- Ages 30–68
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Apr 14
- 5′ 11″ (1.81m)
- Body type
- Dropped out of masters program
- Science / Engineering
- Doesn’t have kids
- English (Fluently), German (Fluently), French (Okay), Russian (Poorly), C++ (Fluently)
I work. I play. I party. I listen, talk, laugh (cry? Rarely.) I eat and drink (well!), and when I'm tired I relax. I strive to be good at many things and excellent in at least one thing.
The guiding principles of my life are respect, freedom and knowledge. I would like to add love to those, but somehow that has never worked for me.
When I grow up, I'm going to be a cyber witch. Or a techno-shaman, if you like.
Beyond that, I am a problem solver - whether the solution requires engineering skills, creativity or empathy, I'm good at finding it and I get my kicks in the process.
Next on the list (I hope) are kindness and humor.
I love music that is intense and at least a little weird. Too many styles and bands to mention, but if I had to pick one band to take to a desert island, that would be Sonic Youth.
I don't watch TV and I rarely watch a movie. I'm more of a bookish person.
Food? Don't get me started! I love food, and I'll try anything. But if I had to pick just one style, it'd be East Asian cuisine (yes, I'm aware that that is a huge field).
- A good bike
- Unit tests
- A cheerful but profound contempt for arbitrarily imposed rules
- Good food
- Green tea
- One more pair of shoes. Just this one, I swear!
Hey, that's a lot of things I couldn't do without! Does that make me needy?
I also think about my projects, real and imaginary. Building a table out of spare parts, writing software to visualize four-dimensional objects, or genetically manipulating trees so that they grow to be houses you can live in. Stuff like that.
Love and relationships are another favorite topics to think about. If I were as experience in practice as I am in theory I would be... well, let's just say, really experienced.
- Cycling buddies
- People who are interested in writing a queer/feminist pulp SciFi series
- Going out to queer/lesbian activities in Berlin
- Emotional and/or physical closeness
If you can relate to any of that, by all means drop me a line! I appreciate it!
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