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LilithTS

63 / F / Bisexual / Available

Kirkland, Washington

Her Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 1:38pm
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other
Sign
Cancer and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from med school
Job
Retired
Income
Offspring
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I am a Seattle pre-op TS living full-time en-femme searching for a masculine partner. I enjoy sports, the theatre, symphony, opera, ballet, and fine dining. While not a heavy drinker, I do enjoy an occasional glass of wine with diner or cognac after dinner. Musically I am into classical, jazz, classic to modern rock and various alternative styles. I am an accomplished guitarist, also play the bass and was a violist. I was a blue water sailor, an equestrian (English and western), skier (cruiser, not black diamond), enjoy pocket billiards but prefer 3-cushion billiards, can volley with you a bit on the tennis court, a duffer at golf, chess is my preferred board game, Texas Hold-em my favorite card game although I was a bridge player at one time, and naturally cuddling in front of the fire. I also enjoy various forms of motor sport, esp Formula One auto and Grand Prix motorcycle racing.

I am a Doctor of Traditional Chinese Medicine although now retired, as well as a Licensed Massage Practitioner, a Shiatsu Practitioner, Qi Gong and Reiki Practitioner. I am highly spiritual, although not into the typical dogmatic religious practices, I would most closly associate with the Taoist path of life.

I was a Ninjutsu teacher and have been in the martial arts for longer than I care to mention. In addition to Ninjutsu, I also have blackbelts in Tae Kwon Do, Go Jyu Ryu and Shonen Ryu, and also practiced Tai Chi and studied both Sheng I and Ba Gua to a minor degree. On the purely health side, I have also been a pilates and yoga practitioner.

I am a Sensuous and Loving Pre-op TS Woman
What I’m doing with my life
In the process of becoming as complete a woman as possible in order to be the ideal mate and companion for my partner. Searching for a male partner/husband to share the rest of my life with. Getting ready to move back onto acrage where I can have farm animals and perhaps a horse or two.
I’m really good at
Texas hold-em poker, billiards and pool, driving, sailing, cuddeling and sensuality.

As a Doctor of Traditional Chinese Medicine, I am a master of Tui-Na Chinese Therapeutic Massage and adjustment, acupuncture and Chinese Herbal medicine. As I am highly sensual, I naturally utalize these skills to provide the ultimate sensual massage to my partner. Naturally, I would also provide the ultimate in personal healthcare for him as well as his sexual health.
The first things people usually notice about me
My legs and long naturally blond hair.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books:
All of the works of Sir Laurance Gardner.
All of the Hitchhikers Guide to the Galaxy series.
The Cities in Flight series.
The Dune series
The Foundation series
The Harry Potter series
Most by Kurt Vonnegut... Catch-22, Slaughterhouse Fivem etc.
Most of Heinlein, Asimov, Ray Bradbury, Anne McCaffrey, Anne Rice, Edgar Allen Poe, H. P. Lovecraft
Dr Michio Kaku, P.D. Ouspensky, D. T. Suzuki, Carlos Castenada, Baba Ram Das
Tao Te Ching, Art of War,

Movies:
V for Vendetta, the Harry Potter series, the Matrix series, Lord of the Rings (all), many of the Star Trek and Star Wars series, 2001, Blade Runner, The Fifth Element, Buckeroo Bonzia, Kung Fu Hustle, Ultra Violet, Crouching Tiger Hidden Dragon, Dr. Strangelove or How I Stopped Worrying and Learned to Love the Bomb, The Hitchhikers Guide to the Galaxy (BBC series, although the recent movie was fair), the Riddick series, Men In Black, Rocky Horror, Qalaxy Quest, most Monty Python, Blazing Saddles, Young Frankenstein, The Producers, Space Balls, The Adventures of Baron Munchausen, The Princess Bride, Some Like It Hot, The Lost Boys, most Peter Sellers movies, Casablanca, Ran, The Seven Samurai, and most of Kurosawa's works, many different "cult classics", too many others to list

Music:
The Beatles, Pink Floyd, Moody Blues, Led Zeppelin, Cream, David Bowie, T Rex, Velvet Underground, Venus de Mars and All the Pretty Horses, John Fahey, Dave van Ronk, Laura Nyro, Weather Report, Bob Dylan, Sarah McLaughlin, Loreena McKennitt, John Coltrane, John McLaughlin, Al DiMeola, Miles Davis, Glenn Miller, Billie Holliday, Brian Setzer, Zappa, Capt. Beefheart, Tim Buckley, Ravi Shankar, Chronos Quartet, Beethoven, Wagner, Brahms, Satie, Chopin, Debussy, Liszt, Mozart, and far too many others to list (I still have an LP collection of something like 5000 LP's plus many 78's and 45's; and several hundred CD's for the car)

Food:
Some level of veggie for the past 40 years, but currently eating seafood and fowl. Where to start on the list?......
Sushi
Chinese
Japanese
Thai
Italian
Mexican
Cuban
Greek
Lebonese
many South American and West Indies cultural foods
American Southwestern
virtually anything using cocoa
The six things I could never do without
Love
Companionship
Helping others
Playing/Listening to Music
the Symphony/Opera/Theatre/Ballet/Musicals
all the standard necesities of life
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How I can become the woman I have always known myself to be.
On a typical Friday night I am
Playing or listening to music, playing a poker tournament, perhaps a dinner out and a movie or concert, or simply staying in and enjoying each others company.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am willing to do whatever it takes to become the woman I am inside and fulfill my life by being that woman.
I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 45–80
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
You can accept a special relationship with a fully committed TS woman. While no relationship begins Long-Term, it must start with a tentative first step. Although married, due to the inability of my wife to have a physically active sexual relationship, we are open to my dating, and possible co-habitation if things progress to that level. If you are able and willing to take that step and move beyond it into a sensuous and loving relationship, let me hear from you and we will discover if there are sufficient commonalities to warrant pursuing things further.