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Lilyem

58 / F / straight / Single

Stevens Point, Wisconsin

The Skinny

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 5" (1.65m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Activity partners
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Pisces and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Education / Academia
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Has children
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My Self-Summary

I enjoy watching movies---action/adventure like the Bourne films or ones told from multiple viewpoints or that provide different scenarios (like Vantage Point or Run, Lola, Run). I tend to use a lot of exclamation points when I write---but not necessarily when I speak. I don't hog the covers. I may snore. I love to travel, especially abroad, and to become a part of the rhythm of life where I am staying. I'm a "middling" walker--somewhere between a stroll and a racewalk. I don't sing in the shower but I might sing otherwise if the situation seems to warrant it. I'm liberal when it comes to religion and politics. I like to wear scarves. I have a quirky sense of humor. I enjoy a long conversation over dinner, the thrill of a roller coaster ride, and sharing a laugh. I read a lot of novels and enjoy the ones that weave a bit of personal philosophy into the story. I believe in magic. I like mysteries. I bake great cookies!

What I’m doing with my life

reading, thinking, watching, listening, talking, sharing...

I’m really good at

reading, writing letters, watching movies, baking cookies, being loyal, traveling, making my coworker laugh, procrastinating.

The first things people usually notice about me

my blue eyes.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books--A Ring of Endless Light by Madeleine L'Engle (plus most any other book by her), Greensleeves by Eloise Jarvis McGraw, books by female mystery writers like Marcia Muller and Sara Paretsky, authors Robert Parker, Dean Koontz...
Movies--Love Actually, the Bourne movies, Être et Avoir, Once, Michael Clayton, The Station Agent, Vantage Point, Slumdog Millionaire, (and lots of others!)
Music--Loreena McKennitt, Sarah McLachlan, Santana, Dave Matthews Band, Coldplay, The Calling, Lifehouse, Jon McLaughlin, Flogging Molly, Nickel Creek, Garou, Jean-Jacques Goldman, Florent Pagny, Patrick Fiori, Bruno Pelletier, Paul Piché (French/French-Canadian pop, classic rock, new age, some jazz but not vocal jazz)
Food--raspberries, chicken, bread, pasta, dark chocolate

The six things I could never do without

my family (kids, siblings)
my friends (And, yes, I know people aren't "things" but they're important in my life.)
dark chocolate
books/libraries
movies
some time alone to read and think

I spend a lot of time thinking about

who will "stand by me,"
where I want to travel,
what I want to do next.

On a typical Friday night I am

at home reading, watching TV, surfing the Net, or sharing food and conversation with friends or family.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I'm an introvert. That doesn't mean I'm shy. I can talk to almost anyone, and probably will. But I like to have some time alone to re-energize. When I read job descriptions asking for someone "dynamic and outgoing," I know they don't want me. I'm low-key, but I get the job done.

You should message me if

you have a yen for amazing chocolate chip cookies, enjoy interesting conversation, tend to be liberal in religion and politics, are tired of doing things alone, or are looking for a new friend.