Disclaimer: I know that this profile contains trigger words,
words like nice, and gentleman, and romantic, that have come to
mean not their actual meanings but rather that the person is an
entitled jerk that expects to put kindness in and receive sex back
like you're some fleshy vending machine. I would like to reaffirm
that that is not me. That my kindness is not a currency, that I
don't expect an exchange. I am kind because I enjoy being
An INFJ, a Protector, it can sometimes be complex being me, but
much of the time it's very simple; I am a sensual, romantic
gentleman, a man who enjoys treating my people well. Be this to
mean paying for diner, being a good shoulder to lean or cry on, or
some other, it all is much the same to me; I am happy to
But I also enjoy learning new things, meeting new people and
sharing new experiences, trying new things.
This may make me a gentleman at times, or selfish at others, and
that is the nature of me, I am mutable, changing, filling what role
or mood or need I happen to have at that moment.
I love deeply, learn quickly, embrace fully, and listen
I am Limm, and I would enjoy meeting you, and learning from your
experiences, taking what you can give and giving back in my own
If you have any questions that you would like to ask, anything that
you would like to know, ask away, I am always happy to give
answers, though they may not be the ones that you would expect.
What I’m doing with my life
After the jewellery company that I was working for had to lay me
off due to massive cutbacks, I have moved back to Antigonish, and
resumed study in Information Systems.
I’m really good at
Thinking things through all the way to the end, drawing information
from multiple disciplines, and cutting it all down to a theory of
how the world works. Often this is done while I'm talking to
someone about it, using many metaphors and symbols.
I've also been told that I'm good at making people laugh, even when
they don't really want to, listening to those who need help, and
making them comfortable, helping them find a sense of peace, a
sense of ease.
Finally, I'm really good at walking.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
This could be a very long list of all the things that I enjoy
occupying my time with, but I've always felt that that is much fun
to discover in person, over tea, while browsing a book store, or
curling up on a couch and trying to pick something.
However, I will say that I am, and my interests are, quite nerdy.
The six things I could never do without
2) Fine cuisine
3) Awesome friends
4) Ways to wile away the hours
5) Learned skills
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Lately, I've been thinking a lot about ways to improve myself, to
make myself a more complete and mature human being, and I'm
starting to identify and let go of many of the things that are
holding me back.
Also also, I've been thinking about how much I over use "also."
On a typical Friday night I am
I have no typical Friday night. Much of the time I do very little
Friday, and then make an effort to do much on Saturday. Sometimes
its the other way around.
When I'm doing something Friday night, I'm usually out walking with
a partner in crime, exploring and chatting, or at a friends house
playing lots of board games.
When I'm not doing something, I'm usually just hanging out,
watching some TV or movies, reading, or playing video games.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have and fully intend to write romantic poetry again. There's
just something intriguing and fun about attempting to put your
emotions down on paper, trying to paint a picture of exactly what
the heart is feeling while being bound to poetic constraints.
That and I totally Lip Sync along with the music I happen to be
listening to while I'm in public places some times. It really helps
you get pumped on your way somewhere, and don't care that it makes
me look... Strange.
You should message me if
You have actually read to this page, read all my blocks of text,
and are still interested in knowing more. This page only scratches
the surface of who I am, as a human being, as a male, as an
But isn't discovering that part of the fun?