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38 M San Francisco, CA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 11:57pm
6′ 5″ (1.96m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Dutch (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I moved to San Francisco from the East Coast in 2009, in search of a new adventure. My interests are pretty varied, and I would love to meet someone who I can share these with. Design, art, travel, movies, food, politics, the outdoors: going to the beach or walking among the trees, exploring the city, bicycling. A love of music is essential.

Dreamer, modernist, open-minded, creative, idealist, loyal, old soul, passionate, unique, precise, romantic, genuine, warm, sincere, questioning, resolute.
What I’m doing with my life
Working as a freelance/contract graphic designer and part-time at a big art museum. And planning my next trip. Any recommendations?
I’m really good at
Photography. Getting along with all kinds of people. Organizing space. Finding a sale. My record collection is pretty nice.
The first things people usually notice about me
I've been told that I have a very expressive face. Also I'm rather tall.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Music: Boards of Canada, Portishead, Talking Heads, Broadcast, Talk Talk, Dungen, Beirut, Real Estate, Tame Impala, The Kinks, Radiohead, Beach House, Rolling Stones, Cate Le Bon, Curtis Mayfield, Bjork, TV on the Radio, A Tribe Called Quest, the xx, Stereolab, The Zombies, Small Faces, Mulatu Astatke, The Clash, Sly & The Family Stone, Liquid Liquid, Gorillaz, Beatles, Neil Young, Tune-Yards, De La Soul, Matthew Dear, DJ Shadow, Fleetwood Mac, New Order, Four Tet, David Axelrod, Mazzy Star, The Meters, Love, Buzzcocks, Air, Stax Soul, James Brown, T. Rex, The Who, ESG, Sound Dimension, David Bowie, Can, Blur, The Pharcyde, Primal Scream, The Byrds, Caribou, Donovan, Madlib, Prefuse 73, Serge Gainsbourg, Big Star, The Roots, Funkadelic, DIIV, Express Rising, D'Angelo, Kate Bush, Taken by Trees, Brian Eno, Hall & Oates, Shuggie Otis...

TV Shows: True Detective, Breaking Bad, Arrested Development, Girls, Daily Show, Jimmy Fallon, Key & Peele, Louie, classic Simpsons, Parks & Rec, Bored to Death

Movies: Boogie Nights, Taxi Driver, 2001, Morvern Callar, Persepolis, Darjeeling Limited, Let the Right One In, Empire Strikes Back, Beginners, The Triplets of Belleville, The Master, Bourne..., City of God, There Will Be Blood, Helvetica, Control, Dogtown & Z Boys, Riding Giants, French Connection, Thin Red Line, Royal Tenenbaums, Raiders of the Lost Ark, Children of Men, Fargo, Superbad, Motorcycle Diaries, Lost In Translation, Being John Malkovich, Reprise, The Wrestler, The Battle of Algiers, Up, Hurt Locker, Eyes Wide Shut, Exit Through the Gift Shop, Beats, Rhymes & Life, Midnight in Paris, Submarine, Hugo, Searching for Sugar Man, Silver Linings Playbook, Frances Ha, American Hustle, Her, Inside Llewyn Davis, Under the Skin

Reading: Mo Meta Blues by Questlove, Sunday NY Times, various design books and magazines.
The six things I could never do without
Family, music, comfortable shoes, a good tailor, yoga class, ideals
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My family back home. Where to travel next. Aesthetics. How I can do more to help people. How great a city SF would be if it had a better transit system.
On a typical Friday night I am
I work a lot of Friday nights, so it depends how I'm feeling after. Maybe I'll get together with friends for a couple beers, low-key. Or I'll just hang out at home, watching a movie or listening to some records. Saturday is usually more of a social night for me.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I was stalked once by someone that I went on one OKC date with.

I also really liked the OC when it was on. I've never had a Starbucks coffee. I kind of got struck by lightning once, and then saved a woman's life at the same spot a year later. I've never seen the movie Titanic.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 23–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You think we might get along. Pretty simple.