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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 23-37
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 10:39am
6' 5" (1.96m)
Body Type
Atheism but it’s not important
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
English (Fluently), Dutch (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
East coast transplant. Moved to SF six years ago in search of a new adventure. Looking to meet someone who I can share my interests with – design, art, travel, photography, film, and politics. I love the outdoors; going to the beach or walking among the trees, exploring the city, and bicycling. A passion for music is essential.

Words that would best describe me are creative, laid back, genuine, complex, intuitive, compassionate, independent, dreamer, modernist, idealist, precise, loyal, warm, sincere, and questioning.

Dual citizen. Will take advantage of it one day.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working as a freelance/contract graphic designer. Part of an art/design collective with a group of friends. And I'm planning my next trip. Any recommendations?
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Getting along with all kinds of people. Organizing space. Photography. Finding a sale. My record collection is pretty nice.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I've been told that I have a very expressive face. Also I'm rather tall.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Music: Boards of Canada, Portishead, Cate Le Bon, Talking Heads, Broadcast, Talk Talk, Dungen, Beirut, The Kinks, Radiohead, Beach House, Little Dragon, Rolling Stones, Curtis Mayfield, Bjork, TV on the Radio, A Tribe Called Quest, the xx, Stereolab, The Zombies, Small Faces, Mulatu Astatke, The Clash, Sly & The Family Stone, Liquid Liquid, Gorillaz, Beatles, Neil Young, Tune-Yards, De La Soul, Matthew Dear, DJ Shadow, Fleetwood Mac, New Order, Four Tet, David Axelrod, Mazzy Star, Real Estate, Tame Impala, The Meters, Love, Buzzcocks, Air, Stax Soul, James Brown, T. Rex, The Who, ESG, Sound Dimension, David Bowie, Can, Blur, The Pharcyde, Primal Scream, The Byrds, Caribou, Donovan, Madlib, Prefuse 73, Serge Gainsbourg, Big Star, The Roots, Funkadelic, DIIV, Express Rising, D'Angelo, Kate Bush, Taken by Trees, Brian Eno, Hall & Oates, Shuggie Otis...

TV Shows: The Jinx, Halt & Catch Fire, True Detective, Peaky Blinders, Broad City, The Missing, The Affair, Homeland, Luther, Hannibal, Breaking Bad, Arrested Development, Daily Show, Key & Peele, classic Simpsons, Bored to Death, Beavis & Butthead, Planet Earth.

Movies: Boogie Nights, Taxi Driver, 2001, Morvern Callar, Persepolis, Darjeeling Limited, Let the Right One In, Empire Strikes Back, Beginners, The Triplets of Belleville, The Master, Bourne..., City of God, There Will Be Blood, Helvetica, Control, Dogtown & Z Boys, Riding Giants, French Connection, Thin Red Line, Royal Tenenbaums, Raiders of the Lost Ark, Children of Men, Fargo, Superbad, Motorcycle Diaries, Lost In Translation, Being John Malkovich, Reprise, The Wrestler, The Battle of Algiers, Up, Hurt Locker, Eyes Wide Shut, Exit Through the Gift Shop, Beats, Rhymes & Life, Midnight in Paris, Submarine, Hugo, Searching for Sugar Man, Silver Linings Playbook, Frances Ha, American Hustle, Her, Inside Llewyn Davis, Under the Skin, A Most Violent Year, Ex Machina.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Family, music, comfortable shoes, a good tailor, ideals, exercise
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My family back home. Where to travel next. Aesthetics. How I can do more to help people.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I worked Friday nights for the past five years, but that has recently changed. They are now no longer typical. I could be out to dinner, or at a concert, or a movie, a getting a drink, or staying in and making dinner and listening to records or watching TV, or at the gym, or just out on a walk around the city. I try to avoid places where people go out and act stupid because they think that's what they're supposed to do on a Friday night. My patience for being in a loud bar surrounded by obnoxious frat boys, sorority girls and tech bros is nonexistent.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I kind of got struck by lightning once, and then saved a woman's life at the same spot a year later.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You like a challenge. Being an INFJ, I admit I might not be the easiest person to date. Science backs this up:

Also, please don't message me if you smoke cigarettes.