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38 • Campbell, CA • Woman
I’m looking for
- Ages 25–40
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, short-term dating
- Last online
- Today – 6:23am
- 5′ 2″ (1.57m)
- Body type
- Mostly anything
- Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
- Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
- Graduated from masters program
- Doesn’t have kids
- Likes dogs
- English (Fluently), French (Poorly)
Don't get me wrong - I do great with long-term relationships. And I've recently found a new friend who turns me on like nobody's business. So I guess that to the extent that I'm looking for anything, I'm hoping for a good old-fashioned romance: someone new to get all fluttery over!
I am a dasher, a dancer, and a vixen.
Bringing people together. I'm the one willing to find a place, and a time, and to send all those e-mails, while carefully watching over all the little details that you'd never notice if you weren't the responsible host.
Talking, and listening, and knowing which one you want/need right now. I'm not a psychotherapist, but I can play one for my friends.
My Garmin (I have absolutely no sense of direction)
My water (I realize that everyone needs water, but I have a bottle or glass within arms reach pretty much 24/7)
My corrective lenses (I am legally blind without them)
Great conversations (mostly with my husband)
The tradeoffs inherent in wanting to get better at too many things all at once.
Where in the world I'd like to go next. Most recently, it's been all about my next great SCUBA adventure.
How if I'm going to keep buying all this stuff at the farmers' market, I should really cook more... but it's just so easy to let the hubby bring free food home from work.
Actually, now that Monday, Wednesday, and Thursday nights have become reliably filled with blues dancing, pole dancing, or both, Friday night has turned into more of a recovery day, or a time to hang out with my less-dancy friends.
If you're cool with consensual nonmonogamy, and have no specific expectations about where this is going to go. BTW, if your girlfriend/wife doesn't know you're here, then don't bother messaging me - I don't do that sort of thing.
Most importantly: if you can tell from my profile, and yours, that we'd have something interesting to talk about!
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