I'd say that I'm a pretty normal, uncomplicated type of gal who finds herself separated (4 years) and looking for the company of an attractive, confident but not arrogant guy, who keeps himself reasonably fit and looks after himself. I take pride in my appearance so am only asking the same in return. I'm happy dressing up for an evening out or equally at home in jeans too.

I don't have a specific type of guy that I'm looking for, but I do think that chemistry and that important spark will be an important tell-tale sign on first meeting.

Living each day as it comes and trying to keep reasonably fit by attending the gym a few times a week, Body Pump and Zumba when I can. I'm no gym bunny though I can assure you.

Not taking myself too seriously!

Mmmm that's difficult to say. Perhaps that I'm a pretty easy-going and approachable, smiley sort of gal! - who know's - you'll have to tell me!

Music-wise I like Elbow, Coldplay, Snow Patrol, James Morrison, Bruno Mars , The Kooks, chill-out music, Ellie Goulding, Plan B, Cee Lo Green, Elvis Costello, Crowded House, Teardrop Explodes, Single Minds, INXS, oh and Spandau Ballet.

Last concerts I went to see were Elvis Costello and Elbow. Would love to see more bands but just haven't got round to it lately.

Have been to the Komedia a few months ago and would love to go more as there's no better tonic than a night full of laughter.

Food - I eat anything, Chinese, Indian, Thai, English and French. I'm not a food snob but at the same time it's great when you are out in fab company somewhere special eating and drinking the night away in great surroundings!

Type of books I read are biographies and autobiographies, I guess I just love to read about the fascinating and glamorous lives of the rich and famous. I also enjoyed Stieg Larsson's 'Girl with the Dragon Tattoo' trilogy.

My children (of course)
Chocolate
Lip salve (is it just me!)
Warmth of the sun on my body
Cuddles
Soft Kisses

I wonder whose going to contact me from that OKCupid site today.

All too often in, when I should be out with some lovely man like you!

When I was younger (much younger) a few years ago, I was drinking with friends in a London bar and Jools Holland was tinkering away on the piano a few feet from me. (I'm setting the scene here!) I was slightly drunk (a lot drunk actually) and felt sick, I popped my head under the table and was promptly sick all over my friends feet. I sat up straight again and thought no-one had noticed and carried on as if nothing had happened. Big Mistake - they've never let me forget that one!!! I CANT BELIEVE I TOLD YOU THAT and we haven't even met yet!!!!

You think that we will get on.
You have a photo.
Would like to meet a genuine and uncomplicated girl.
You are artistic, creative, quirky
You are not a toy boy (very flattering but no thanks, and by that I mean under 30)