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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18-33
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 18
5' 9" (1.76m)
Body Type
Not at all
Other and laughing about it
Doesn’t have kids
My self-summary
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I'm awesome & awe inspiring. I'm very whimsical and prone to flights of fancy.

I'm pretty sarcastic too.

I love words. I love black people. I love music, art, and fashion.

Black girls rock.

Okcupid is all about sorting. I'm not looking for 30 girls to date. I'm looking for one to get to know. So I'm not mad if you don't respond to me (but best believe if I write you I expect you'd 100% want to write back. You should!!) But at the end of the day women choose men, men can just put their best foot forward.

And if you choose me, believe that's what you'll be getting (left foot forward. That's my best foot after all).
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Work work work work... Tryna make something of myself and get my Mama out the hood
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Scenario analysis and strategic planning
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My wit and my charm
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Shows: The Wire, The Walking Dead, Breaking Bad, Boss, NCIS LA, The Good Wife

Movies: Mo Betta Blues, Glengarry Glen Ross, Boiler Room, Training Day, Coming to America

Books: After the Bombs, The Farming of Bones, Tuff, Devil in a Blue Dress (or anything Mosley), The Miseducation of the Negro, Are you Smart enough to Work for Google?

Music: 90's hip-hop and R&B, Ratchet music (Juicy J etc.), Uncle L, Dollar Brand, Deep Trance House, GO-GO: Backyard Band, Chuck Brown, Rare Essence, Van Hunt, Chico Debarge, Joe, Jhene Aiko
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
a jump rope
jerk chicken
a boomin system
a large Run DMC style gold chain
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Juxtapositions and dichotomies
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Relaxing. Hanging out with good people. Talking shit, swallowing spit.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
They might be impressed with you, but I'm not.

That being said I'm not going to spend too much energy reaching out. I'll say a few words, maybe they'll be clever and catch your attention. Perhaps not. Either way I shall be fine.
You should message me if
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You are energetic and interesting and you can challenge me. You're smart, creative, and I can learn from you.

If you're a contradiction. If you're engaging. If you're multi-layered.

If you're tired of the status quo. And you wanna get down with something amazing. Hit me up.

Or if you wanna build something on that:

"If you don't worry bout where I been or who I saw or what club I went to with my homies, baby don't worry you know that you got me."