Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm awesome & awe inspiring. I'm very whimsical and prone to
flights of fancy.
I'm pretty sarcastic too.
I love words. I love black people. I love music, art, and
Black girls rock.
Okcupid is all about sorting. I'm not looking for 30 girls to date.
I'm looking for one to get to know. So I'm not mad if you don't
respond to me (but best believe if I write you I expect you'd 100%
want to write back. You should!!) But at the end of the day women
choose men, men can just put their best foot forward.
And if you choose me, believe that's what you'll be getting (left
foot forward. That's my best foot after all).
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Work work work work... Tryna make something of myself and get my
Mama out the hood
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Scenario analysis and strategic planning
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Shows: The Wire, The Walking Dead, Breaking Bad, Boss, NCIS LA, The
Movies: Mo Betta Blues, Glengarry Glen Ross, Boiler Room, Training
Day, Coming to America
Books: After the Bombs, The Farming of Bones, Tuff, Devil in a Blue
Dress (or anything Mosley), The Miseducation of the Negro, Are you
Smart enough to Work for Google?
Music: 90's hip-hop and R&B, Ratchet music (Juicy J etc.),
Uncle L, Dollar Brand, Deep Trance House, GO-GO: Backyard Band,
Chuck Brown, Rare Essence, Van Hunt, Chico Debarge, Joe, Jhene Aiko
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
a jump rope
a boomin system
a large Run DMC style gold chain
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Juxtapositions and dichotomies
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Relaxing. Hanging out with good people. Talking shit, swallowing
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
They might be impressed with you, but I'm not.
That being said I'm not going to spend too much energy reaching
out. I'll say a few words, maybe they'll be clever and catch your
attention. Perhaps not. Either way I shall be fine.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are energetic and interesting and you can challenge me. You're
smart, creative, and I can learn from you.
If you're a contradiction. If you're engaging. If you're
If you're tired of the status quo. And you wanna get down with
something amazing. Hit me up.
Or if you wanna build something on that:
"If you don't worry bout where I been or who I saw or what club I
went to with my homies, baby don't worry you know that you got me."
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