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28 San Diego, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 28–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Aug 29
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Working on masters program
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs
English, German (Okay), Spanish (Okay)
My self-summary
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I am a Midwestern girl at heart (St. Louis) but I've lived all over and have been in SD for 4 years. I'm laid back but driven, friendly, intelligent and fun. I'm pretty well traveled and enjoy conversations with depth. I am in grad school full time (and am a graduate research assistant) and work a full time job so I stay pretty busy but I love what I do.

I aim to be my happiest and healthiest self through balancing the basics: eating well, exercising, drinking water, getting sleep, meditating/mindfulness, connection with friends and family and the pursuit of fulfilling goals.

I am a pretty confident and independent person and I don't worry too much what others think. I value having fun and being true to myself with the people I care about most- which may or may not look like rollerblading at night on the boardwalk with my best friend in fanny packs and headlamps.
What I’m doing with my life
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On the grind. I'm a mental health counselor- currently working at a residential treatment center for mental illness. I got my BA in psychology, certification in Addiction Counseling and am now working on my Masters at USD to be a therapist. Next stop is Ph.D. My path has been pretty bumpy and I bummed around after college but I finally found my passion in counseling.
I’m really good at
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listening, finding the positive, connecting the dots, googling, metaphors

I can also really rock sweats and pajamas...
The first things people usually notice about me
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Probably that I'm pretty laid back. Or blonde. Or both.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I'll read, watch, listen to and eat almost anything. I eat a healthy natural diet but I try not to be too rigid about it because that's just not fun.

I love Netflix documentaries but I also love to laugh a lot so I tend to watch comedies. I'm pretty busy but when I get a chance to watch TV I like New Girl, Walking Dead, and Orange is the New Black. My all time favorite is Arrested Development. If you've heard of and/or enjoy Flight of the Conchords or Summer Heights High you get major bonus points.

My favorite book is The Alchemist
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Family and Friends
palm trees
thrift shops
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
my future mini potbelly pig named Hamlet
Mind-body connection

Why I seem to be the only adult who rides their grocery cart when shopping.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
If I am not working I am usually spending time with friends. I love to try new things but I also enjoy staying in and being cozy while reading or watching a movie.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm absolutely terrible with faces and names. But mainly faces. It gets me in some awkward situations.
You should message me if
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You're intelligent, fun, driven, confident, down to earth and goofy. Handiness is great too- tool belts really do it for me.