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54 Toronto, Ontario, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 44–54
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 5:23pm
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Trying to quit
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Self-summary? Depends on the day! Hmmm....terrible typist, honest (sometimes to a fault), hardworking (trying to change that a bit to put energy elsewhere to more social activism and justice), loyal to friends, left-wing politically but conservative financially except for the once a year I go clothes shopping. Ha! Kidding. But I can be a pretty cheap date! Self-deprecating, sometimes to a fault! A bit of a country hick sometimes, a bit of a traveller sometimes, mostly a city guy at the moment. Cyclist. Tell you more when we meet.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Trying to balance worklife with new (old) house repairs, with new and old friends in my life, with music and dance, with trying to do my little bit to make this a livable vibrant city and world.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Oh dear, I rather think I'm somewhat good at a lot of things, but not the expert at much, a sort of Jack of all trades, master of none. I can pick out the rhythmic beat to a tune and move to it, but I don't know if you could call it dancing!
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Not sure about that. Some have said my smile...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Too many to list, but for books, I'd pick out The Name of the Rose by Umberto Eco as a book I could read again, and just about anything by Javier Marias. Nonfiction, noir mysteries and headspinning SciFi. Music, almost any style is great if it's done well, but I tend to gravitate to jazz, funk, soul. Movies - I don't see as many as I would like. This year Life of Pi (Good, not great), The End of Time by Peter Mettler (some great visuals but all over the map), The Master (great mise-en-scene). Past favourites: Pan's Labyrinth, The Matrix, Eating Raoul, The Guard.
Food, I'll try just about anything. I can cook but the repertoire is a bit limited (Note to self, broaden the food horizons!)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Ooh, I'm trying to pare down the things I need, but... my legs to cycle and walk to there and back and dance, my eyesight to read and see the world around me, my ears to listen to music and the dreams and worries of my friends, my lips, tongue and mouth to taste wine and chocolate and other lips, my arms to embrace and hug my friends (and to tie my shoes with the hands at the end of those arms) and a warm safe place to sleep.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The state of the world, how to direct my energy in a positive way (and make sure I have the energy!), trying not to think too much and be in the moment. Why are showerheads so expensive? How to be courageous in a normal way, should I fill out these essays on OKCupid?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Sitting at home reading a book and listening to music, out with friends or on my own, dancing, listening to music, watching a movie, changing the leaky showerhead.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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It wouldn't be private if I admitted here, now would it!
You should message me if
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you liked any or all of what I wrote, then perhaps there's some sympatico kinship from which to start a new "relationship" whatever it may turn out to be. Peace...