It's hard to describe yourself like this without sounding vain or self-involved, but I assure you I am neither vain nor self-involved. That said, I am a pretty awesome and likable person, though I might be an acquired taste for some people- if you can't take a joke and appreciate the beauty and importance of sarcasm then you won't get me and I won't get you. It's been my experience that most things in life don't need to be taken too seriously.
What I do take seriously are my relationships with friends, family, and myself. I'm an excellent friend and listener and I want people in my life who can appreciate that and also reciprocate. I don't do drama- if you have to work too hard to like a person, it's probably not worth it.
If we can get past the drama, then you can pretty much count on me doing anything I can to make you happy. I am a people-pleaser and find a lot of fulfillment in making people feel good about themselves. I think people are most drawn to me because of that.
I should also mention that I am pretty crude so if you are looking for a woman who talks like a "lady" you're on the wrong fucking page.