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46 F Glastonbury, CT

My Details

Last Online
Today – 6:16am
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Mostly other
Other, and laughing about it
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Has cats

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My self-summary
I have a lot of interests and hobbies - art, writing, hiking, travel, scuba-diving - and I'm looking to meet people who share these interests. I'm in an open relationship, and for the first time in a long while, I have more time for being social.

It's been about a year since I updated this profile. Right now I'm more interested in meeting women than in meeting men.
What I’m doing with my life
Recently, I adjusted my schedule at work to allow for more time to focus on sculpting and writing.

I've been working with a personal trainer for a year and a half, and it's really exciting to see regular improvements when I run and practice yoga.

I volunteer with an organization that runs conferences on community building, and this group has become a close family.

Lately I've been spending more time exploring the good art, performance, and jazz venues in the area, plus a whole lot of good cinema.
I’m really good at
I'm really good at board game strategy, cooking for a crowd, gardening, and making custom designed toy monsters.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm pretty energetic, and I usually have some project in my hands - sewing, carving, cooking.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: I just read Pride and Prejudice for the first time. Wow. So much fun. I like Flaubert, Hemmingway, DH Lawrence, Raymond Carver, Kenzeburo Oe, James Salter... I read a lot of Buddhist philosophy, lately focusing on Chogyam Trungpa, Pema Chodron, and Thich Nhat Hanh. Right now I'm into audiobooks of children's classics for my commute. Last week it was A Wind in the Willows. This week it's Treasure Island.
(Update: this month it's War and Peace.)

Music: I have pretty eclectic tastes, and a typical mix includes Pizzicato 5, tUnE-yArDs, Coltrane, Monk, Verdi, Hangai, Dan Deacon, Brian Eno, Cesaria Evora, King Sunny Ade, Chucho Valdez...
Movies: I've seen some great films so far this year, like Upstream Color. Yes, it's just as good as everyone said it would be. Now I want to re-watch Primer. Black Cat White Cat. Holy Motors. Blancanieves. Some classics from my favorites list: Army of Darkness, To Live, Me You and Everyone We Know, Late Spring (everything by Ozu is a treasure), Naked Lunch, Sweet Movie.
The six things I could never do without
Sleep. Good, healthy food. Hugs from friends. Wilderness. Exercise. Free time.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Shapes and colors. Flavors. Animal behavior. Philosophy. Monster movies. Poetry. Latin music. Social justice. Board games.
On a typical Friday night I am
Getting ready for a weekend with friends - either hosting or heading to a small gathering for games, hikes, movies, food, and excellent conversation.
Some Fridays I'm at a writing group, or at home sketching ideas for a weekend in the studio.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm not afraid of spiders, but I still don't like picking them up in my bare hands.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like girls
  • Ages 35–55
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating
You should message me if
I have this soft spot for real, live people who read my profile and ask relevant questions. ;)