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54 • Raleigh, NC • Woman
I’m looking for
- Ages 40–65
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating
- Last online
- Apr 22
- 5′ 6″ (1.68m)
- Body type
- Graduated from masters program
- Rather not say
- Rather not say
- Has kids
- Has dogs
I value intelligence. If I can't connect to your mind I will never connect to the rest of you. Honesty, trust and integrity are extremely important to me. Say what you mean and mean what you say. If you cannot be honest about who you are, what you want and what your personal situation is, then please do not contact me.
I am self-sufficient and I don't need you to rescue me. I am looking for a relationship not a one night stand. I am looking for my best friend, my lover and my life partner. Someone with whom to share the joys and sorrows of life.
I am a classy, refined lady in public but I do have a wild side. I want a man who can appreciate and revel in all facets of my personality.
I love to read murder mysteries. Some of my favorite authors are James Lee Burke and Michael Connelly. One of my favorite books is "To Kill a Mockingbird."
I like most music from the 8os and 90s and today except for hard rock and rap.
If you are a reasonable geographical distance from me. I am not getting on a plane to have a cup of coffee with you.
You have a wild streak too. I am a liberal person and I would not do well with anyone who is ultra conservative or devoutly religious.
You are emotionally open and you can express your feelings and desires.
You have a wonderful sense of humor and you don't take yourself too seriously.
If you are interested, please send me a note and not just a WINK. I need to hear from you to get a sense of your personality.
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