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54 Raleigh, NC Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 40–65
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Feb 27
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Rather not say
Has kids
Has dogs

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am an intelligent, passionate, witty, thoughtful and sensitive woman. I have been divorced since 1999 and I have no desire to ever marry again. I no longer believe that there is just one soulmate for a person. I believe that people come into your life at a particular point for a reason. Life is short and one needs to enjoy it as much as possible.

I value intelligence. If I can't connect to your mind I will never connect to the rest of you. Honesty, trust and integrity are extremely important to me. Say what you mean and mean what you say. If you cannot be honest about who you are, what you want and what your personal situation is, then please do not contact me.

I am self-sufficient and I don't need you to rescue me. I am looking for a relationship not a one night stand. I am looking for my best friend, my lover and my life partner. Someone with whom to share the joys and sorrows of life.

I am a classy, refined lady in public but I do have a wild side. I want a man who can appreciate and revel in all facets of my personality.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I will share if we connect.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
In no particular order: making lasagna, gardening, learning languages, reading quickly, listening to friends when they need help, reading the feelings of others, giving great advice and having fun.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Definitely my hair and then my smile. I have had total strangers ask me if they could pull my hair.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I love going to the movies. I have a hard time listing one favorite movie, but some that I love include: "When Harry Met Sally", "The Wizard of Oz", "Gone With The Wind", "The Curious Case of Benjamin Button", "Dial M for Murder", "The Birds", and "Psycho".

I love to read murder mysteries. Some of my favorite authors are James Lee Burke and Michael Connelly. One of my favorite books is "To Kill a Mockingbird."

I like most music from the 8os and 90s and today except for hard rock and rap.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My family
My friends
Watching movies
Reading books
The Ocean
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Life and how the choices we make shape our lives.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At home with a good book or out with friends usually at a movie.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That is a great question and I am a very private person so I am not going to answer it here.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You have read my profile and you truly understand what I am looking for AND you honestly think we may enjoy each other's company.

If you are a reasonable geographical distance from me. I am not getting on a plane to have a cup of coffee with you.

You have a wild streak too. I am a liberal person and I would not do well with anyone who is ultra conservative or devoutly religious.

You are emotionally open and you can express your feelings and desires.

You have a wonderful sense of humor and you don't take yourself too seriously.

If you are interested, please send me a note and not just a WINK. I need to hear from you to get a sense of your personality.