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flirtatious, fun-loving, and hard-working

My self-summary Propose an edit

Well, if I were to summarize myself, it would be with a phrase: to the hilt. Use some exclamation marks and a few flares to get the desired effect. I'm a high-energy person. I enjoy doing anything and everything at all hours of the day or night. I'm a writer and a gamer. I'm something of a chef and a little bit of a handy-...man? I like learning new things, and I'm always trying to do it. I study Japanese like a fiend, and I have recently started a writer's workshop. If you don't know what that is, you can ask me.

Also, I'm a Stiletto. Just so y'all know.

What I'm doing with my life Propose an edit

I have a BA. Ask me what it's in, but you'll have to guess first.

I'm studying Japanese, writing, gaming, trying to transfer to the Kansai region to be closer to the 'action', and chillin' with the peeps.

I'm really good at Propose an edit

Yeah, my horn's pretty cool, so I'll go ahead and blare it a little.

Sex - I'm not promiscuous, but I enjoy it. I'm highly experienced and more than a little skilled.

Writing - I'm not in a workshop yet, but I'm working on it. I've developed a personal style that doesn't really come through on this site... Try asking me for a sample.

Singing - When I'm not sick or drunk, I'm a really good singer. I have a wide range, from a low soprano to a low tenor, and I love singing duets if my partner knows the words.

Staying active - I love being active, in every way. Whether it's hiking, writing, or gaming, I'm always doing something. I usually prefer to do stuff with other people around, and I thrive in larger groups. I guess I'm kind of a social organizer...

Keeping in Touch - New friends are great, but they're not a substitute for old friends. I love my friends, and I'm always dropping lines.

The first thing(s) people usually notice about me Propose an edit

I act like a one-night stand waiting to happen when I'm out, and for the most part, that's what I am. I do believe in finding 'the one', but who says you can't enjoy the search as much as attaining the goal?

My favorite books, movies, music, and food Propose an edit

Yikes! This is a really long list, so I'll generalize:

Books: I love fantasy novels, but I don't have the patience to write a whole novel. I read science fiction short stories to help with my writing style, which is distinctly useful for the futuristic scene. So - David Eddings, Melanie Rawn, Anne McCaffrey, all the mid-80's giants, along with almost everything from the 60's New Wave Science Fiction.

Movies: Queen of the Damned, Hero, House of Flying Daggers, Crouching Tiger, The Princess Bride, Blade, movie adaptations of aforementioned New Wave shorts, others to come...

Music: This one really depends on my general mood. If I'm angry or feeling apathetic, I like metal and heavy alternative. Playful = anything that's good for dancing, bad rap included. Nostalgic = new wave and some early 90's pop. Creative = mellow music (Enya, Bassic, Bond).

Food: I guess anything goes here. I really like sushi and sashimi. I also adore cooked seafood, and have been known to spend a day at a crab-leg-possessed buffet. I love spaghetti with meatsauce and/or chicken tenders. I kill to get in line when the Olive Garden has their endless pasta special. I don't like udon, and I detest soba, but maybe I haven't found the right restaurant, yet.

The six things I could never do without Propose an edit

My computers
The internet
Books
Sex
Other people
The ability to count to six, damnit!

I spend a lot of time thinking about Propose an edit

Where I'll be in X years. I have realized that large goals are achieved by breaking them down into smaller, easily attainable goals. Motivation is key, and recognizing when it's faltering is a honed skill.

On a typical Friday night I am Propose an edit

Staying up late doing stuff, even though I SHOULD be going to bed at a reasonable time because I work early on Saturdays. I'll take this question to mean the day of the beginning of my weekend. On Saturday nights I am at one of three places: hanging around town with some friends after work, writing at home, or over at a friend's house.

The most private thing I'm willing to admit here Propose an edit

... Yeah, I really don't know. It's not that I can't think of what to write, I just don't know WHICH is the MOST private... Message me and ask, I guess.

I fantasize about Gil Grissom... And Warrik Brown... And Sara Sidle... Does that count?

You should message me if Propose an edit

you have a marginal facility with the English language, you want to hook up, and you're not a complete creep. Or if you want to talk about writing, or books, or books adapted to film. Or if you think I'm hot. Or if you have a job that's focused around writing and want to give me some *appreciated* advice.

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Lita-hime: 352 questions

Ethnicity
N/A
Height
5' 7" (1.72m).
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Casual encounters (sex partners)
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity
Sign
Pisces and it's fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Education / Academia
Income
N/A
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), Japanese (Fluently)

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