I am who I am, I am young at heart, mind and body! I am very loving. I have lots of friends mostly female. I do onto others as I would want them to do onto me. I cry during movies, and at the loss of my pets. I am very smart both mentally and street. I have common sense! I am a leader, I like to be in charge, but I am also fair, I take others thoughts actions, and believes into consideration, and will in all logical cases incorporate them into my own thought line. I listen and am not afraid to show empathy. I have been called a kid whisper, kids follow and listen to everything I say, and they tell and trust me with their darkest secrets, even the monsters under their beds! I tend to care about animals more than people, and have also been called a dog, cat and bunny whisper too. I am in tune and love nature. It fascinates me and makes me feel calm, excited and recharged all at the same time. Spring, Summer, Fall and Winter, Rain Snow Wind and Sun I love it all! I am always learning reading and moving forward. I am a technology buff, not only do I hold an engineering degree, but I am one of the fastest, most knowledgeable IT guys you will ever meet! This may sound arrogant, but it’s not I love teaching people tech and have helped kids as young as 4 and grandmothers as old as 85 understand the tech world we live in! I never think just cause I got skillz, makes me better than the artist in the room. I only look back to learn what I did wrong, or incorporate what I did right. I am firm believer in lessons learned from history.
What I am looking for: A life partner to create a loving and happy family with. I have had and created some really bad luck when it comes to relationships and choosing life mates. I have learned I tend to pick the week and broken, and then try to fix them in hopes they will change, instead they abused and use me till I have nothing else I can do but walk away. Well I have learned that lesson, hopefully not too late. I therefore am very weary and have become extremely choosy about who I will spend time with. I have also found that I am no longer the chaser. I believe I am worthy and desirable for some to like me the way I am and if they don’t then they do not deserve me. So that being said, I give great love and attention to those I find worthy, backrubs, homemade food, flowers, breakfast in bed, walks on the beach, hikes in the mountains, hugs all the time, I am looking for the same back. I don’t think this is unreasonable, and is very important when having kids to show them what a loving and caring relationships looks like and it shows them an example so they do not have to go through the some of the same hardships that I have. If you feel you have the muster to not only keep up with me, but have the same moral compass then please message me back and we can see if our souls, our lives, our paths can create a future together!