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41 Athens, Greece Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 37–46
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Jan 5
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body type
Mostly vegetarian
Other, and laughing about it
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Dislikes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Greek (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Apparently 98% of the men on this site are blind, or plain fucking MORONS. Really people, READ MY "Message me IF", down there, at the END of my profile! Otherwise don't bother messaging me, you're wasting your pathetic time with your idiotic one-liners. Besides, if you're too lazy to write more than a line, imagine how lame you must be in bed.

Really Cool Woman, not the kind you are used to.
(But maybe the kind you wished for :) )

Pretty, smart, sexual, spiritual, diverse, musical, deviant, perverse, inquisitive, sapiosexual, unrelenting, exploring, passionate, intense, chased by funky demons and looking for angels (with a tail). Bohemian princess, luxurious neohippie, lover of life. Independent like the wind and dedicated till the end.

What do I want? To walk through life with an awesome life partner at my side, where we're both free to evolve, while we nurture each other's evolution and freedom of expression.

I've found that person, it's Ubernerd420. He's an amazing man, and I'm blissful for our union. So I'm not looking for romantic involvement now. However, our relating does not restrict who we are and what we do with ourselves outside of it, so I'm still also looking for awesome people to connect with and share great experiences.

Now we're both looking for other awesome people that will frame our lives and that we're going to get creative with. An intentional artistic eco-community with burners, or poly people, very relaxed about their body and their sexuality, in a green beautiful place, close to a bad-ass city sounds wonderful... :)

As of summer 2013 I'm also a Burner and not just that, I'm the regional contact for Burning Man in Greece, and yes, Greece will hopefully have a burn event in the future. Be amazed.

I believe in THIS. If you wanna play house with me you'd better agree to some extend. It's not that I don't respect the existence of other world views, I just get SO bored with people walking miserably around acting like sheep while in truth we're all lions.

In a nutshell, I am a romantic, kinky slut, who is sharing her not-very-conventional, rich sex-, travel- and music-filled life with a Really Cool Creative Man, with similar views, Long Hair, a musician, and kinky in bed. Some other poly partners may or may not be included eventually.

Oh, and just for those males that read the word 'slut', saw a couple of sexy pics and think they can get in there easily, THINK AGAIN. I'm DAMN difficult AND picky AND demanding.

---older text----
The kind of relating I'm interested in sounds like a balanced, negotiated open relationship with a Soulmate, which mostly includes sharing multiple-people sexual experiences (yes, I do mean threesomes, foursomes, n-somes, etc.) with my partner, or maybe each one doing his/her own separately once in a while. Kinky too. So if you're a jealous man who won't tolerate his woman being touched by another, please yu go avay nau. If, on the other hand, you are a man who is turned on by seeing (or might eventually see the beauty of it) his little bunny-rabbit luv being humped by a score of males, and proud that she can pull them all off, and at the end of the night can cuddle her like she's the only woman in the world, do message me directly. Long hair is a must -sorry, that's my main fetish, and being a musician is my second mail fetish. Being a switch in bed is another (roughly 80% dominant, 20% bottom). Mind you, all the above will hold for me too. That sort of relating might need some work for the emotional bond to get well stabilized of course, but anyway, you know what I mean.

All of the above is how I see it. I'm not a stickler though, so if something different sweeps me of my feet, I won't say no. What's most important is for me & the people around me to be true to our own soul and its freedom to be expressed in whatever way it sees fit.

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Since all the above may sound sufficiently fascinating, I should add the following:
Only bother with me if you're authentic,
if you speak your mind for good or bad,
if you don't play silly games and if you don't believe in victimhood.
If you do any of that, I'll know it within 30 seconds and you'll be outta here. I tend to shake people's worlds and make them ask questions about their selves, just by being my lovely spontaneous self.
If that bothers you or scares you, stay away. I am strong minded, INTENSE, not very diplomatic, ridiculously independent, and self sufficient. Most times I'm careful to not be intrusive with my intensity (keyword: most). I can be very particular, and at times I want things in a specific way. It therefore helps if you're more easy going about stuff than me. I can be a real bitch sometimes, I can be intellectually snobbish, and I get easily irritated when I'm tired. I get bored easily, especially with stupidity or lack of authenticity. I have a certain wanderlust and I need to travel every once in a while. If you physically tickle me I'll probably punch you. And don't ever, EVER wake me up suddenly or brutally (for sex or any other reason) when I'm sleeping and haven't had enough sleep (or most days, even when I've had enough).

Still interested? Then read on.

I'm really diverse. I mean really. How can I pin it down? Hm I can't. Just to give you some hints, I've been (in no particular order):

- a computer and a gaming geek
- an big nature activities aficionado: done paragliding, rock climbing, mountaineering, scuba diving, horse riding, sailing etc.
- a meditator
- a party animal hot chick dressed to kill
- a kinky libertine indulging in all sorts of yummy play with multiple people, in many parts of the world
- a rocker girl, singer, guitar player and musically addicted, with her own band
- a priestess dancing ecstatically for the Goddess
- the sort of person that will call you at 3am and tell you "Let's leave NOW for a week long roadtrip!"
- a fetish performer
- a beekeeper
- a road tripper
- a hippy, staying in Rainbow camps and villages
- a dancer since the age of 5, from ballet to salsa and tango
- a world wide traveler

Let's just say, when my friends call me crazy, I take it as a compliment.

Haha! How self-involved does THAT list sound? Still, aren't you supposed to learn things about me in here?


In my life I 've followed my mind and followed my heart. I've taken somebody's everything and given my everything. I've felt totally alone and connected with everything. I 've learned how to love. Faced my greatest fear. Felt the worst possible pain and indescribable joy. I have lost and found myself. I've walked through fire. I 've wanted to die, I'm still here and NOW I'm enjoying it.

(Apparently I'm a bloody good drama queen too. :P)

Where would you like to go today?

I love women in every sense of the word. I just can't have a permanent monogamous relationship with one. I can't have a purely monogamous relationship with a man either for that matter. So if the chemistry and connection is right, there's nothing lovelier and sweeter than two women coming together. Women fill a place in my heart and body than men don't, and my ideal life certainly includes them, both emotionally and physically.

Even if you are not interested in the erotic part, but you just find this profile interesting, I would still like to talk with you. An intelligent woman that can think out of the -typically-female- box is something special, and a pleasure to interact with.

Love, Freedom, Truth, Beauty, Spirituality, the workings of universal energy, adventures out there (the world) and in here (my mind), music, guitars, music,Burning Man, Nowhere, jamming, making music, singing, nature, doing things in nature, living in nature, being creative, long haired men, intimacy, libertinism, swinging, orgies,exhibitionism, polyamory, kinkiness, fetishism, dominance, submission, extremism, long haired men, writing, poetry, new experiences, traveling by body or mind, being whimsical, new things every day, dancing, cats, long haired men, guitar players, open-minded, authentic, conscious people, people's secret lives, psychological voyerism, the great outdoors, long haired men, music, spirituality, evolution, 2012.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Today is the first day of the rest of my AWESOME life. :)

I'm an indigo turning crystal. I live in endless abundance.
I'm done with having 'problems' in my life. Fuck suffering!
Now it's just awesome, blissful, inspired creation of awesomeness EVERY DAY, shared with blissful, amazing people who live the same way.

I am a Burner.

I have a band. I write music, sing and play guitar. Music is a BIG thing in my life. I'll say that again: Music is BIG in my life. I fucking love it and cannot live without it.
My cd is on the way, and my rock opera is going to be done one day.

I used to be a web designer, but I'm done with it now.

I make soap at home. I sell it. It's really awesome soap.

I'm a photographer. I take photos. Then I do something nice with them.

I connect with people. I find connecting with people on any level extremely interesting, as long as it's real. The deeper, the better. Seriously, if you don't want somebody to see your soul, don't bother with me. Or at least don't go to bed with me. :D

I'm Greek, and after travelling quite a lot and living abroad, repetitively, and then some more, (it was Europe, last year, Asia the year before that, America the year before that, etc.) I'm back in Greece. For now. Then, who knows.

I'm open to exceptional propositions.
Really, if you have a good idea, tell me.
[I have YET to receive a mail with a good idea. I MEAN it people.]
If not now, when will you live it?
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
(in no particular order)
Reading people like open books
Using my intuition
Rocking'n shaking people's worlds and igniting changes in their lives (you've been warned)
Writing song lines
Traveling extensively
Being cheeky
Being intense
Leaving people more kinky than I found them
Untieing knots
Doing magic
Aural sex
Knowing when you're bullshiting me
Foreign languages
Orgasms at will
Not being disciplined with my guitar practice (Man, when am I gonna make those licks work!?)
Being bitchy (usually with reason)
Being loyal (not sexually)
IQ tests
Giving my heart
The "Butterfly" technique
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My presence. If I feel like it, I turn heads. If not I can be invisible.
I'm pretty passionate about life and it shows.
I'm also pretty sexual and THAT shows. (When its awakened, because it has been known to fall into some very annoying hibernation periods occasionally)
I also usually have very red hair.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Shortbus, Before sunrise, Before sunset, Blade Runner, The secret (Yes! I totally believe in this shit, more than that, I actually use it!), Eternal sunshine of the spotless mind, all Monty Pythons movies and Circus, Underground, Waking Life, Natural born killers, Clerks I & II, True Romance, Limitless, Milion dollar hotel, Thelma & Luise, Der Krieger und die Kaiserin, Run Lola Run, Gran Torino, Fight Club, Into the wild, Underground, The Matrix, Secretary, The Princess Bride. And I can OF COURSE recite all three Star Wars movies by heart.

Choosing movies is not an art. Watching them is.

I've been a sucker for series the last couple of years (downloaded of course!), till I watched them all:
Dexter, True Blood, House MD, Californication (as far as word-wit goes, you can't do much better than this), Heroes, Fringe (I know it started like shit but it did get much better), Lie to me (I love Tim Roth)

Aaaa, seriously!!! All of it?
Just to give you a clue (in no particular order):
Johnny Cash, Iron Maiden, Metallica, Nick Cave, Sisters of Mercy, Type O-Negative, The Mission, Tiamat, Megadeth, Pearl Jam, Green Day, New Model Army, Deep Purple, Iggy Pop, Soundgarden, Mick Harvey, Rammstein, Paradise Lost, Savatage, Nightwish, John Frusciante, Eluveitie, Bjorn Berge, Seasick Steve, Robert Johnson, The Earthbound, Placebo, Dead can Dance, Red Hot Chili Peppers, Linkin Park, Loreena McKennitt, lots of Greek shit, like entehna and classic rebetika, Bach, Motzart ;P
Oh and Britney Spears. Yeah, she's actually cool. Live with it.

Generally Metal, Heavy Metal, Rock, Classic Rock, the Blues, Alternative Rock, Folk Rock, Indi, Swing, Acoustic, Ethnic, Irish, Salsa, Tango.
Also, the music I make.

Terry Pratchett, Tom Robbins, William Gibson, Neil Gaiman, Douglas Adams, Reimond Feist, Barbara Hambly, Bukowski, a bunch of crazy analysts like Froyd and Lacan, Poetry, I used to enjoy Castaneda, and lots of other stuff. Oh, and Tolkien, of COURSE :P

Anything cooked with Love, Fruit juices, Fancy salads, Meats with sweet dark sauces, Sushi, Sweets, Beers, Wines and Espressos, Teas, Ethnic or Local. Ever trying new things.
I'm mostly vegetarian, but I occasionally eat meat.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Knowing about the law of attraction and source.
Long haired men
Good Sex (with above)
NB: Good sex -even a 1 night stand- involves chemistry, some heart, some soul connection and nice cuddles afterwards.
Free expression
Burners & Burn events!
Rock and metal music
My guitar
My camera
My laptop and some wifi (ok I can live without it but I'd rather not)
Breaking rules and norms
Shit, how could I almost forget: CATS!!!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I am an omnipotent being and I can create anything I want.

Burning Man, Nowhere, Burners

My next song

The meaning of life. I know there isn't one, it's only what I make of it so I think about what I want to make of it.
---UPDATE---: Not anymore. I got it :P

Long haired men :P``

How I shape my own reality, cause I do, and everybody else does, and how to put this fact across to people who have not already got that (like, MOST of them).

The fifth dimension we're in after 2012 passed.


Energy (as in: 'everything is energy') and how it's shaped by our interactions.

How people feel, how they experience things, and how they relate to each other and to me, what energies they exchange and what are the true meanings of the words that they say. Every motion and word is an expression of something that is not always readily apparent, but is the root of that expression. And THAT interests me the most.

Psychological voyeurism.

Lately (spring '14): Ubernerd420 He's awesome :P
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
out with a long haired someone I met on OKCupid?

Typical: what's that?
I usually don't know what day of the week it is.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Hahahahaha!!! I'm an EXHIBITIONIST dudes!
Ask an exhibitionist about their private things! This could probably be the longest text field in this profile. But I'll have pity on you :) I'll only list a FEW.

Sometimes I'm seriously scared of things.
I usually don't let it stop me doing them.

I once almost got married to a guy I met on OKC.
Thank god I didn't. The sex was stellar though.

I'm extremely hard to tame.
But once you do, I'll be yours forever.
Otherwise, you'll have a blast with me before I fly away into the sunset. Or we become best friends and cook pancakes together every thursday evening. Whatever. :)

I wrote this test.

I find some sort of perverse satisfaction in re-editing my profile every now and then. Oh, and I'm NOT embarassed I have one.

I am a geek. I don't LOOK like one, but believe me, I've done it all: had a Spectrum ZX as my first computer, using basic to fill the screen up with my name in different colors, I've been a Tolkien high priestess including speaking Quenya, I love Star Wars, I've repeatedly played RPGs for 18 hours straight with breaks only for water and loo, I've OF COURSE played table RPGs for years (much better than the computer ones, I mean 20sided dice ROCK, don't they? :P), I've even had my own Eldar army, played Warhammer 40k and painted lead figurines professionally. I'm a self taught professional web designer (a good one too), I've played Paintball and Laserquest.
And now I'm a fetish model and a hot ass chick. How cool is THAT. ;D

I like knitting.

I ridiculously keep on believing in Soulmates.
Again, really.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
-You have long hair.

-You have a proper PHOTO with FACE in your profile and you don't send a one-liner. They DON'T work.
Two-liners don't work either. Duh.

-You mention the word "sapiosexual" in the msg. Or show me in some other way that you've actually read [part of] my profile.

-You're in an intentional artistic, eco-community with poly people and there's space for two more amazing people there. :)

NECESSARY things so I'm interested in you sexually:
-You have long hair.

-Don't be fat. Fat just doesn't do it for me. Or old, or bald, or grey-haired. Yes, I'm that superficial. Live with it.

-Don't have a [big] beard! I HATE BIG beards. I don't want to date a priest-looking guy for christ's sake. It's disgusting. Who knows what lives in there! (Unshaven is ok, even sexy, and JUST SOMETIMES short beards are fine.) And you're long haired.

-You're intelligent and perceptive. And long haired.

-You are high on sensuality and have SOME understanding of Tantric sex, or willingness to learn. And long hair.

-You're kinky and partially dominant in bed. I get bored with vanilla people. And you have long hair.

-You're open minded. REALLY open minded. And long haired.

-You're a happy, positive person. Miserable and whining doesn't do it for me. And you have long hair.

Optional things, but highly recommended: :)

-You KNOW (or at least you suspect) that you create your own reality, and that there are no victims out there. And you have long hair.

-You're a BURNER!!! :D (if you're not, google "Burning Man")

-You think that living with your poly partner in a house with a few other awesome, beautiful, poly people sounds like a great idea.

-You're in a libertine/swinger couple/circle/network with beautiful, intelligent and deviant people - preferably with long hair. Yes I'm talking about people who like to have sex all together. Yum.

-You have long hair and you're a rock/metal/blues guitarist or bassist (that doesn't mean I'll be erotically interested in you, depends on our chemistry of course).

-You're a band member looking for a female singer/music writer/rhythm guitarist.