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LittleAmelie

28 / F / straight / Single

San Diego, California

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It's weird how people feel entitled to your information.  So many of the people I've met here demand to know what part of town you're living in, try to pressure you into chatting on the phone or meeting before you're comfortable.  I realize this is a dating site, but most of these people grew up in the internet age, didn't they?  Isn't one of the cardinal rules of online safety keeping your personal information private?

Oh well, when they push me I feel no compunction about lying, so I've given out plenty of false locations.  And when they keep pressing about meeting or exchanging phone numbers when I've already expressed my discomfort, I mentally cross them off the list of people I'll ever want to meet.  It just seems like such a sign of disrespect, or at least insensitivity, when I say "no" and they think if they can figure out the right way to ask, they can change my answer to "yes".  Not to mention how insulting that is to my intelligence.

Luckily, I've met plenty of perfectly nice, courteous guys on here.  And maybe those pushy guys will read this and take the hint...

It's weird how people feel entitled to your information. So many of the people I've met here demand to know what part oftown you're living in, try to pressure you into chatting on thephone or meeting before you're comfortable.  I realize this isa dating site, but most of these people grew up in the internetage, didn't they?  Isn't one of the cardinal rules of onlinesafety keeping your personal information private?

Oh well, when they push me I feel no compunction about lying, soI've given out plenty of false locations.  And when they keeppressing about meeting or exchanging phone numbers when I'vealready expressed my discomfort, I mentally cross them off the listof people I'll ever want to meet.  It just seems like such asign of disrespect, or at least insensitivity, when I say "no" andthey think if they can figure out the right way to ask, they canchange my answer to "yes".  Not to mention how insulting thatis to my intelligence.

Luckily, I've met plenty of perfectly nice, courteous guys onhere.  And maybe those pushy guys will read this and take thehint...

An image of caro1965 I'll not only need a valid address but a credit card and social security number to continue this relationship. A bank card and pin number will also be helpful. Make all checks payable to cash and send them to me at... We already have your IP address and all your personal information transmitted through your service provider. Thank you, how does coffee and a chat sound? :- )

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